What (in your society) is a 'real man'?

[Anomalocaris]

A real man is any person of any persuasion who treats those who call them “not a real man” as if they were not even worth the dirt they so impudently presumed to trod upon.

But is that your personal stance, or the stance of the wider society you live in?

Your personal stance can often go a long way to making the other stances seen in the wider society irrelevant. The only condition seems to be there are others whose stances are similar to your own, and you pick your fights