Custody Battle Update Thingy

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Yeah. Well, as usual, no one is helping me. My mother is a bitch who hung up with me as I was in the middle of telling her what happened in court because "her dog needed her". I hope to raise all my children to be self-sufficient, yet always know they can count on me to be there for them. I think he's had his ass powdered all his life, and always gotten things his way, and I feel privileged to be the one giving him his rude awakening.

Well, that is what family is there for. I wasn't spoiled, do not get me wrong, however we maintain very strong family ties, and no one is ever left out, and supported in terms of education and etc.
But I'm sure that he gave himself this rude awakening, right then when he challenged you for the child.
Like, okay, you had an affair with some other woman, and that woman became pregnant. Now, you went off and deserted that woman to live with herself for nine months, why come back?
I think he might be suffering from a case of manic depression or something.

No. It's someone who sells marijuana for profit.

Ah, he was your dealer, than?
Well, you picked the wrong person from the start, if you ask me. People with such dishonest and unlawful trades are generally not to be trusted in anything in any way.

He was pretty nice to me. I never thought of him as a "lovely man", I just thought of him as someone kind of enigmatic. Wasn't really out for a serious relationship at the time. Just someone to screw and smoke weed with, honestly. That's not something I expect you, or anyone else to approve, or think fondly of, but, oh! look at that... my give a fuck is broken. I'm a liberated woman, mehmet. Woot!

Well, maybe if you would have listened to the people who did not approve of your behavior, maybe you wouldn't have to go through all of this in the first place. Obviously, people need to listen to others from time to time. But you strike me as a somewhat lonely person, aleia. Maybe you did not have a friend to support, warn and tear you away from a person of his kind. Maybe you made the wrong choice in the people you wanted to get to know(although that certainly sounds more plausible to me).

I googled his name. LOL I doubt a background search would have told me that his wife was really off taking care of her sick grandmother, and his family was turning a blind eye to his blatant unfaithfulness to her. So, he didn't go back, he's just a repulsive lying, cheating asshole.

Well, regarding your post, I take back that statement, as you did not look for a serious relationship, according to your own words. So why really look into who he really is?
You couldn't have known him any better than you did back then.

No. He wants control, child support money, and to not have to pay child support.

Well, is he required to pay child support now? From what I gather, you weren't even married.

Don't know. Don't care.

Well, I don't know, and have trouble understanding it.

Control myself how?

I don't know, growing up, maybe.

I would rather snuff out a lit candle with my vagina, than allow him to touch me.

Well, I got lost in your words, but maybe you should have done it before.
But some people only learn things by painful experience, I suppose.

Ah yes, the difference being that I am willing to admit I've made some mistakes in the past.

Well, I think that the mistakes are on the part of your parents.
They surely did not raise you well enough to cope with the dangers of the outside world.

I'm not married, thank fucking gravity. His wife left him a few months ago on the grounds of alcoholism and abuse. They have 2 children together, both are the same ages as my oldest two children. He isn't even allowed to see them. This isn't a jury trial. He deserves no mercy.

Well, not really surprising, given his background as a drug dealer, who cheats on his wife.

I hope they do come again. They're a raucous bunch, and they're not going to do anything but help me by acting like the uncivilized, JerrySpringer-esque bunch of shittards that they are.

Well, people generally hook up with people of their likes.
He sounds off like a regular bydlo to me, and his family and friends are probably like him in that regard.