First off, I'm sorry to hear that you are disabled. I assume you went overseas?
More on topic, if you really love each other, you can still raise children together. There is no reason why the children should only be exposed to one belief or lack thereof. You can both encourage your children to think properly and see what they come up with on their own. If I were you, I would compromise on such things as baptism, but reason with her regarding Christian schools, as children are not taught how to think but rather what to think in such places. Also, they may run into conflict because you are an atheist. Long story short, it can be done. There are many here who have done it. Mutual respect is key.
More on topic, if you really love each other, you can still raise children together. There is no reason why the children should only be exposed to one belief or lack thereof. You can both encourage your children to think properly and see what they come up with on their own. If I were you, I would compromise on such things as baptism, but reason with her regarding Christian schools, as children are not taught how to think but rather what to think in such places. Also, they may run into conflict because you are an atheist. Long story short, it can be done. There are many here who have done it. Mutual respect is key.