I think you should be very clear to your, and possibly your wife, if she is part of the reason, why you want to "come out".
Maybe write down those reasons, and rank them against the consequences of coming out.
Remember, honest is always the best policy if it serves your interest best. When it does't serve your interest well, honesty is always a lousy policy.
Maybe write down those reasons, and rank them against the consequences of coming out.
Remember, honest is always the best policy if it serves your interest best. When it does't serve your interest well, honesty is always a lousy policy.