(July 30, 2012 at 9:44 am)NoMoreFaith Wrote:(July 30, 2012 at 9:35 am)FallentoReason Wrote: Attraction to someone doesn't depend on those skills. And yes I know disappointment is something you have to deal with hence why I said you have to get up after you fall.
If you run into a wall, the solution is not to get up and run into it again. You move forward, not stuck in the same place with a bleeding forehead after repeatedly bashing your head against it.
You're more likely to get a restraining order than a date I suspect (joking joking!)
Hah, when I say try again I don't mean ask her out the next day and keep persisting like that ad infinitum. Obviously the answer most likely won't change. This doesn't mean the answer will be the same for as long as we live. I know of married couples where the guy liked her to-be-wife for as long as 5 years and the answer was always the same during that time.
"It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it" ~ Aristotle