Implications of the Atheistic Position

[jackman]

What you get out depends on what you put in.

You guys are too pessimistic for my liking. I'm a young 21 year old guy with my whole life ahead of me. I'll put the effort into the things where I want to see growth and I'll see them through. Most of you have in one way or another wrongly analysed my situation with this girl. You have no idea what she's like or even ME for that matter, so who are you to say if it's going to work out eventually or not?

I won't let your words get in the way of what's physically possible for me. The whole point of living as an atheist to me is that ultimately I am in control of my future, with appropriate limitations of course. So why should I listen to the negativity when I can just keep working on who I am in all areas so that I become more attractive?

most people are too pessimistic for your liking because maybe we've been 21 and are trying to save you some time and heartbreak.

given that, i would say improving yourself is always good, but doing it with the hope of getting her back is going to be a long road with brick wall at the end. ymmv tho, take it for what it's worth. but continue to get better. if you want her back, go the indirect route. work on whatever it is you think will make you better (things that you've heard you could improve from more than just her) and then go get someone else. women tend to sniff out guys that are already taken because they think he must be good enough for SOMEone at least. lol. (this is all my observation, none of it could in fact be true to anyone but me) she may see you and want to chat again, perhaps she will and at that point, you get the pleasure of choice.

there's a million things you could do, just do something and don't mope over her - that's not attractive to anyone.