OK, this is uncharted water for me but I'm slowly getting the picture. Violet and Tara are transvestites (I'd rather not use "trans" since someone on another thread took issue with me for calling Japanese Japs). If you avatars are really your pics, I must say you both look absolutely female. The surgery you are talking about must be a surgery to change a boy into a girl physically. My advice is not to do it. You can't be sure if you won't change your mind in a couple of years. I know a boy who was a trans when he was very young and then very recently, he became like a regular boy and he even played rugby. We're all growing, whatever age we may be. What we are today won't be the same as what we will be in a few years.
I'm a little confused about TaraJo. I thought I read in another thread that she said she was interested in a girl. I thought she even said she had a girlfriend. So I thought she was a lesbian. But maybe it was someone else and I've mixed up the people.
I'm a little confused about TaraJo. I thought I read in another thread that she said she was interested in a girl. I thought she even said she had a girlfriend. So I thought she was a lesbian. But maybe it was someone else and I've mixed up the people.