(September 12, 2012 at 9:57 pm)greneknight Wrote: OK, this is uncharted water for me but I'm slowly getting the picture. Violet and Tara are transvestites (I'd rather not use "trans" since someone on another thread took issue with me for calling Japanese Japs). If you avatars are really your pics, I must say you both look absolutely female. The surgery you are talking about must be a surgery to change a boy into a girl physically. My advice is not to do it. You can't be sure if you won't change your mind in a couple of years. I know a boy who was a trans when he was very young and then very recently, he became like a regular boy and he even played rugby. We're all growing, whatever age we may be. What we are today won't be the same as what we will be in a few years.
I'm a little confused about TaraJo. I thought I read in another thread that she said she was interested in a girl. I thought she even said she had a girlfriend. So I thought she was a lesbian. But maybe it was someone else and I've mixed up the people.
Eh....... close enough. I could easily bitch you out for use of the word 'transvestite' but trans terminology can be complicated enough to be its own fucking college class.
Surgical desires, really, I don't see myself changing my mind and I've talked to far more trans women who are glad they've gotten the surgery vs those who regret it. If I was going to have regrets, I'd already be there since I can't get rid of these bewbs without surgery; thing is, I love my breasts (I mean, seriously, sometimes I just like to sit there on the couch and bounce them around just because I finally can).
No, I'm not dating a girl. My boyfriend is ts as well; it's kinda ironic because when we met I thought he was just a slightly butch girl and then a few months later I found out how much he hates being a girl. I'm bi, though, so I can date either guys or girls. Honestly, I know more gay identified trans people than straight identified trans people.
Anyway, why do you want to know who I date? Are you coming on to me, greneknight?
I live on facebook. Come see me there. http://www.facebook.com/tara.rizzatto
"If you cling to something as the absolute truth and you are caught in it, when the truth comes in person to knock on your door you will refuse to let it in." ~ Siddhartha Gautama
"If you cling to something as the absolute truth and you are caught in it, when the truth comes in person to knock on your door you will refuse to let it in." ~ Siddhartha Gautama
