Single Men and Bachelors: Feminism is not for you.

[TaraJo]

Have you seen the girls on Jersey Shore?

Shallowness concentrates like flies to shit. Males and females (and any spectrum in between that can be capable of the concept of "shallowness").

We're all shallow, to a degree. Probably because we're apes that like to arrange into tribes and other forms of social hierarchy (which implicitly means there's someone below or above you)...

Pretty much that. Shallowness isn't a gendered trait; it's a trait that can appear in both men and women.

A lot of the people who keep complaining that they always wind up with shallow men/women, if they looked at their own dating behaviors, maybe they'd be able to figure out why that is. If a guy complains about shallow girls but he always goes to fancy clubs, throws money around like nothing else and makes a big point to show off a fancy car, yeah, that's the stuff shallow girls go for. If a girl keeps getting shallow guys but she always goes to the same clubs in the skimpiest dress she can find with makeup spackled on and enough hairspray to paralyze a horse and then she throws herself at the guy with all the money, again, she shouldn't be surprised she's going to wind up with shallow guys.

As for me, I don't really go out of my way to find people at clubs or anything like that. If I date someone, it's going to be someone I run into as I live my every day life. As a result, I wind up dating people I already have something in common with. For example, if I meet a guy at the video game store or the comic book store, we have similar interests right there. If I meet someone to go out with at school, I know we have that in common.