When you prayed did it ever work?

[Drich]

That's a recipe for confirmation bias you're selling there.

So long as I am on the right side of said bias, so what?

God does not love everyone equally. The Equality of God's love ends at the cross. Those who accept the love displayed there will know the boundless love of God. Those who turn their backs on the cross will in return be shunned.

God so loved the World that He gave His only Son. In response to this God expects a response from us. It is to this end that all have been 'Loved by God.' For those who refuse this love, He does not offer anything else.