Retorth,
You have outlined one of the greatest defenses for the inefficacy of prayers.
I've heard this argument used to explain why most prayers are not answered:
1. Only a true believer will have their prayers answered
2. You must genuinely ask forgiveness before praying
3. Many of your prayers go unanswered
conclusion: You must either have some sin you haven't confessed or you have sufficient doubt. Either of these conditions block you from the blessings of God.
I understand your frustration. It would be great if there was a way to prove that prayer worked; then it would follow that God exists and we could all agree.
Rhizo
You have outlined one of the greatest defenses for the inefficacy of prayers.
I've heard this argument used to explain why most prayers are not answered:
1. Only a true believer will have their prayers answered
2. You must genuinely ask forgiveness before praying
3. Many of your prayers go unanswered
conclusion: You must either have some sin you haven't confessed or you have sufficient doubt. Either of these conditions block you from the blessings of God.
I understand your frustration. It would be great if there was a way to prove that prayer worked; then it would follow that God exists and we could all agree.
Rhizo