Ask a transsexual anything

[Violet]

Chicks with dicks are hawt.

Confirm?

Some are, some are not. Depends on how open someone is to the idea, and the prettier the lady is: the easier it is for a straight guy to be open to it.

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I consider myself pansexual. I'm equally attracted to all sexes, although most (actually... all, come to think of it) of my long-term, intimate relationships happen with men. I'm inwardly feminine for the most part, and outwardly, I'm on the femme side of androgynous. I like to look girly sometimes, but I imagine that most of the time, save for my flawless use of accessories (*wink*), people see me as a teenaged boy, with my almost-flat chest and my driver's caps. My closest friendships are equal between men and women, with my four best friends being two males, my sister, and my female roommate, all of whom conform to gender and sexual "norms".

Funny, you sound like me, only sans the harrowing abuse... and I really hope it stays that way

I've never really felt like a "girl" per se, but I've never felt like a "boy" either. I remember when I was a teenager, thinking I had been born the wrong sex, but now, to me it just doesn't really matter anymore what sex I am. I've also never really felt the need to "come out". Honestly, people aren't shocked by me much. I just don't make a big deal out of things, and then neither does anyone else. Maybe I'm just lucky

I know a number of androgynous and otherwise gender-queer individuals, you certainly are lucky that you feel comfortable with yourself

I just want to thank TaraJo and Violet for this amazing and honest thread.

Sometimes I'm honest, but I spend most of my time being irreverent.

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I sometimes wish I had girl parts myself. I like the softness of women. I do like being a guy though, not a "tough guy". But I liked having girlfriends growing up and certainly pined after many, was married once and that was a wonderful experience and she, my x, is a wonderful woman.

I like being soft too, and don't want ladyparts quite as much as I want to be gutted of that thing. Moment I'm told that I'll never be able to enjoy a female orgasm: it comes off.

I am amazed though, in my 12 years of being an online atheist how much things have changed for gay/transgendered folks. It still is far from equality but I couldn't have imagined being part of such a thread 15 years ago.

Violet and Tara, it is great to see that you at least have a haven to be yourselves. I think it is safe for me to say for most on this board, you are both valued and you are helping society learn and grow. Thank you for this thread.

Nah, I'm not valued For every meaningful thing I've ever siad, 15 random and totally ignored things have been said by me. I'm certainly not helping society when my going out is a rare event. Thank Tara for the thread, I'm just here for the cookies