If your God is really as good and loving as you say, then God should love me even though I am an atheist and a lesbian. I didn't choose either. Why would God punish me for that? And God should love sex and love that we have it, because sex feels good and is good for us. He shouldn't put all these weird restrictions on it.
Belief in those restrictions just makes me think that the point of religion is to control people, and by remaining theists and maintaining those values, you are allowing yourself to be controlled.
Belief in those restrictions just makes me think that the point of religion is to control people, and by remaining theists and maintaining those values, you are allowing yourself to be controlled.