God Loves Me, Too

[thesummerqueen]

LOL. Why?

I'm bored. It's raining, and I don't have much to do at work. All my activity plans are being saved up for this evening. Then we can go on our merry ways.

I'd say a person is out of balance if certain types of sex are so important to them that they'd leave an otherwise good partner to pursue those types of sex.

Only because most people don't understand how non-sexual BDSM also is.

David's not the only great man out there. What's key to keeping things together is that he understands how important it is to me and works around it or in it. I guess he cares about me that much - much like your wife must care about you. If I had an "otherwise great" partner who refused to discuss it or refused to acknowledge it or even shamed me for it, I'd leave him. Why should sex be so "unimportant" that it shouldn't affect a relationship? What makes all those other things so much more important? It's an incredibly intimate, soul-bearing (if you will) act. If something's not jiving that even communication can solve... Why not find someone you jive with more?

I think it's way easier to find friends who can share your hobbies than someone you can share all your intimacies with. Better you find someone compatible in that regard when it comes to marriage and sharing a bed.

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hahahah "pseudo ignore". It keeps me from having to see your BS without consent - consent being something I'm pretty big on.