(April 4, 2013 at 6:45 pm)John V Wrote:(April 4, 2013 at 6:12 pm)festive1 Wrote: Because sex is awesome. Because orgasms are awesome. I couldn't imagine never having good sex, and not even knowing I was having mediocre/bad sex and thinking that was as good as it gets... I definitely think this is different for women than for men.This doesn't address the question. Yes, sex is awesome. Why can't it be awesome for two people who marry as virgins? Even if it's not awesome at first, why can't they learn? It's certainly fun to practice.
The female orgasm. The difficulty achieving female orgasm on the first attempts at sex. Or that a lot of women can't reach orgasm during penetrative sex and need clitoral stimulation. These pristine virgins are unlikely to have explored their own bodies. Women who don't masturbate have a more difficult time achieving orgasm during sex. If you don't know your own body how can you direct a partner to give you pleasure? Lots of, "No not there... A little more to the left... No a little slower... No a little more pressure..." And if she's never had an orgasm before, that is difficult to direct.
