My boss tries to tell me that people who have premarital sex/relationships are less likely to stay together if those relationships go long term rather than immediately getting married. Hilarity, because he's a Christian too - practically bible thumping. Why is it only the more deeply religious who say this? Correlation. Correlation.
Again, John, I won't repeat all the things Festive has said, but your values betray you as you imply that keeping a bond with someone you originally formed one with is more important than having your other wants fulfilled. This implies further, or rather you seem to have blatantly stated, that everything else is unacceptably selfish, and not everyone holds this value. Mostly because we believe we have only one life to live (wasn't that a soap opera?) and would rather be as happy as possible rather than stuck with a schmuck who won't accommodate something we highly enjoy in life.
Again, John, I won't repeat all the things Festive has said, but your values betray you as you imply that keeping a bond with someone you originally formed one with is more important than having your other wants fulfilled. This implies further, or rather you seem to have blatantly stated, that everything else is unacceptably selfish, and not everyone holds this value. Mostly because we believe we have only one life to live (wasn't that a soap opera?) and would rather be as happy as possible rather than stuck with a schmuck who won't accommodate something we highly enjoy in life.
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