Im atheist but my wife isn't

[Savannahw]

I also agree that the drunken part might not be helping the situation. Nether is wanting her to change. She lost her mother now she is emotionally losing her father (having him changes so much) I understand that it is cause you some issues in your relationship, and that should be addressed. I don't think a documentary would be the best way. Books could be good. This might sound odd but why not suggest something like this. We aren't all angry on here and people are of different beliefs. If you want her to open her mind to the "truth", but she doesn't want to become angry why not show her some non-angry atheists.