Quote:TruthWorthy Wrote:You wouldn't be able to change her which Is my point. How much do you think the relationship would handle considering prolonged antagonism of the going to hell sort? Especially when you know it's full of shit?
Didn't any of these issues cross your mind before you two became serious? I've thought about visiting church just to find a nice girl to be with. The reason I didn't bother was because I knew I'd need to continue visiting despite having achieved all I could from there. You two probably aren't compatible enough to stay together in the long term. Your girl is 'upset' you wont be together in the afterlife probably reflects her own understanding of this fact and she would most likely have her social network 'pissing' in her ear about the relationships failure, "because lets face it, you're not going to leave *your* faith, are you!?". I know it's a kick in the teeth losing out to a false belief but got to be practical. How would you raise (or want to raise) you kids?
A897 Wrote:
nobody needs to change their faith if they don't want to! Let the girl raise your kids the way she wants but after they get a little older they can choose for themselves who they want to follow. All of us are raised in same way according to our parents' religious traditions but now we know what is right in reality.
The way I see it lasting is if you take up the faith bro. Just throw away common sense and say I'm not good enough for her how I am, so I need to change.
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