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Poll: How should kids affect your decision for divorce?
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For the sake of the kids divorce should not be an option.
4.55%
1 4.55%
Sometimes divorce is what's beat for the kids.
50.00%
11 50.00%
It isn't about the kids.
45.45%
10 45.45%
Total 22 vote(s) 100%
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Divorce and the kids
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RE: Divorce and the kids
It isn't about the kids. The kids will feel shit about it, sure; but they'll get over it.

When people say stupid shit like "Stay together for the sake of the kids" it makes me want to slap them. For the sake of the kids??? What do they even mean by that? Do they genuinely think it is healthy to teach kids that they should stay with someone even when they no longer love them? No, if it was about the kids at all, it's better to teach them to understand that if they aren't happy, they can change that and let themselves be happy again. Being miserable with your life wouldn't do your kids any good at all.

But it's not about the kids, it's about you doing what's best for you. This is your life and you're not going to get another one, so do what's best for you.
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Messages In This Thread
Divorce and the kids - by Fruity - October 4, 2013 at 7:02 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Jackalope - October 4, 2013 at 7:14 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Zazzy - October 4, 2013 at 7:24 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by wwjs - October 4, 2013 at 7:37 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by pocaracas - October 4, 2013 at 7:56 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Heir Apparent - October 4, 2013 at 7:56 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Bad Wolf - October 4, 2013 at 8:04 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by NoraBrimstone - October 4, 2013 at 8:13 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by wwjs - October 4, 2013 at 8:16 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by NoraBrimstone - October 5, 2013 at 6:04 am
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Brakeman - October 5, 2013 at 11:24 am
RE: Divorce and the kids - by NoraBrimstone - October 5, 2013 at 2:36 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Raeven - October 4, 2013 at 9:15 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Captain Colostomy - October 4, 2013 at 9:16 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Jackalope - October 5, 2013 at 7:10 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Minimalist - October 4, 2013 at 9:30 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Fruity - October 4, 2013 at 9:37 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Brakeman - October 4, 2013 at 9:38 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Jackalope - October 5, 2013 at 7:25 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Brakeman - October 5, 2013 at 8:45 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Jackalope - October 5, 2013 at 8:54 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Captain Colostomy - October 6, 2013 at 4:18 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by NoraBrimstone - October 5, 2013 at 9:08 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Fruity - October 4, 2013 at 10:15 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Brakeman - October 5, 2013 at 1:33 am
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Angrboda - October 4, 2013 at 10:19 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Minimalist - October 4, 2013 at 10:56 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Walking Void - October 4, 2013 at 11:17 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Captain Colostomy - October 4, 2013 at 11:24 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Fruity - October 4, 2013 at 11:23 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Walking Void - October 4, 2013 at 11:42 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Kayenneh - October 5, 2013 at 1:56 am
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Something completely different - October 5, 2013 at 11:13 am
RE: Divorce and the kids - by pocaracas - October 5, 2013 at 11:35 am
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Something completely different - October 5, 2013 at 11:50 am
RE: Divorce and the kids - by pocaracas - October 5, 2013 at 12:20 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Jackalope - October 5, 2013 at 7:17 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Angrboda - October 5, 2013 at 1:20 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by LastPoet - October 5, 2013 at 1:25 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Fruity - October 5, 2013 at 6:49 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Dragonetti - October 6, 2013 at 1:43 am
RE: Divorce and the kids - by kılıç_mehmet - October 6, 2013 at 8:21 am
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Brakeman - October 6, 2013 at 8:42 am
Re: RE: Divorce and the kids - by NoraBrimstone - October 6, 2013 at 2:28 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Jackalope - October 6, 2013 at 3:29 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by max-greece - October 6, 2013 at 3:49 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Fruity - October 7, 2013 at 12:30 am
RE: Divorce and the kids - by KichigaiNeko - October 7, 2013 at 3:55 am
RE: Divorce and the kids - by festive1 - October 7, 2013 at 7:31 am
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Angrboda - October 7, 2013 at 9:06 am
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Davidthegoliath - October 11, 2013 at 1:20 am
RE: Divorce and the kids - by frankiej - October 7, 2013 at 10:13 am
RE: Divorce and the kids - by sarcasticgeographer - October 7, 2013 at 11:35 am
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Zazzy - October 7, 2013 at 11:59 am
RE: Divorce and the kids - by max-greece - October 7, 2013 at 12:22 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Zazzy - October 7, 2013 at 1:00 pm
Re: Divorce and the kids - by NoraBrimstone - October 7, 2013 at 11:55 am
RE: Divorce and the kids - by sarcasticgeographer - October 7, 2013 at 12:14 pm
Re: RE: Divorce and the kids - by NoraBrimstone - October 7, 2013 at 12:52 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Raeven - October 7, 2013 at 1:23 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Fruity - October 7, 2013 at 2:36 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by pocaracas - October 7, 2013 at 3:00 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Davidthegoliath - October 13, 2013 at 11:46 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Fruity - October 7, 2013 at 3:02 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by mostlysilent - October 7, 2013 at 3:46 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by John V - October 11, 2013 at 10:43 am
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Fruity - October 11, 2013 at 7:46 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by Davidthegoliath - October 12, 2013 at 1:56 am
RE: Divorce and the kids - by c172 - October 11, 2013 at 9:26 pm
RE: Divorce and the kids - by pineapplebunnybounce - October 12, 2013 at 12:43 am

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