(October 5, 2013 at 6:04 am)NoraBrimstone Wrote:(October 4, 2013 at 8:16 pm)wwjs Wrote: No. Do what's best for you AND the kids.What's best for her will be best for the kids, because they will grow up with a happier mother.
Wow! Talk about misogyny! Why do you assume that the mother always gets custody of the kids? Three houses down from me a mother lost custody of her kids to her ex-husband. The mother wasn't terrible, but she wasn't financially or emotionally stable. The ex-husband remarried and evidently convinced the judge that theirs would be a better home. By the way, one of the reasons she lost custody was that she made several unsubstantiated claims about his "horribleness."
What's best for the dad could equally be what's best for the kids. What's really "best for the kids" would be that both parents pull their head out of their asses and start acting like adults that have, and live up, to the basic expectations of a marriage.
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