RE: Divorce and the kids
October 7, 2013 at 12:30 am
(This post was last modified: October 7, 2013 at 12:59 am by Fruity.)
I will make it short since this is from my phone. Yes, I do have fault. I am human. My fault was getting married to someone I didn't know well enough eight years ago because the pastor said it was what the god would want.
Things do not always fit a pattern. Sometimes people get a divorce because one of them is abusive. Sometimes one cheats. Sometimes the emotional abuse is too much. Sometimes it's more complicated than this. My case is complicated and I can't share details, but I can say I don't consider him a monster... Just a good person who doesn't know any better. I can't keep waiting. Tomorrow is not certain. Life is too short. My kids need peace. I need peace.
That one has some fault does not mean one should stay. The problem started then. It has to end now. Sticking to something forever just because I had some fault is not logical.
I change my mind with new information. Eight years of it.
Also, the car example is way off. The tree just stands there. People do much more than that, you know.
Things do not always fit a pattern. Sometimes people get a divorce because one of them is abusive. Sometimes one cheats. Sometimes the emotional abuse is too much. Sometimes it's more complicated than this. My case is complicated and I can't share details, but I can say I don't consider him a monster... Just a good person who doesn't know any better. I can't keep waiting. Tomorrow is not certain. Life is too short. My kids need peace. I need peace.
That one has some fault does not mean one should stay. The problem started then. It has to end now. Sticking to something forever just because I had some fault is not logical.
I change my mind with new information. Eight years of it.
Also, the car example is way off. The tree just stands there. People do much more than that, you know.
Pointing around: "Fuck you, fuck you, fuck you, you're cool, fuck you, I'm out!"
Half Baked
"Let the atheists come to me, and stop keeping them away, because the kingdom of heathens belongs to people like these." -Saint Bacon
Half Baked
"Let the atheists come to me, and stop keeping them away, because the kingdom of heathens belongs to people like these." -Saint Bacon
