Divorce and the kids

[Angrboda]

Just a stray thought, but perhaps the specifics of the divorce and its impact are less important than finding some way to ensure both parents are committed to honesty about the changes and the relationship, and an effort is made to help the children understand it on their terms. Maybe this isn't coming out right, but I'm thinking perhaps focusing on how what the parents do will affect your children may be less useful than focusing on what the children need, regardless of the specific resolution. Maybe I'm oversimplifying. I'm not a parent and have never been in a committed long termrelationship, so I'm just.... I don't know. Something.