Even after I told my dad I was a non-believer, during every phone call he'd ask me if I'd been going to church. He forced me to go until I went to college, and gave me horrible guilt trips if I didn't go when I was visiting him.
Maybe you could point out to her the compromise you're making by going to church and ask her to stop with the collection plate nonsense
Maybe you could point out to her the compromise you're making by going to church and ask her to stop with the collection plate nonsense