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Walking the a/theist line with family & friends
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RE: Walking the a/theist line with family & friends
(December 4, 2013 at 11:20 pm)atheistmama Wrote: Bad Wolf - Some know. My husband knows but asked me long ago not to tell his mother and other family members. I did tell one of his sisters. She mostly shrugged. The others wouldn't.

As for friends... My closest friend knows. My other mommy friends are really more acquaintances. I'm not sure when or how to bring that up. People down here in North Carolina generally assume you're Christian. It's sort of weird to say, "Hi. I'm J and I'm an atheist." If someone asks me what church I go to I usually say, "I'm not a Christian, so I don't have a church." Few people go beyond that.

Well if your some of your friends and family know you are an atheist and are still trying to make you go to church and stuff, well....they are just being dicks. Its alright if they talk to you about it but as soon as they start trying to convert you or act like you are a Christian really, you have to put your foot down.
Also, maybe you should get to know your mommy friends better before you let them know. Let them see what a nice person you are. If they ask you about it, don't lie.
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RE: Walking the a/theist line with family & friends - by Bad Wolf - December 5, 2013 at 3:46 am

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