(January 9, 2014 at 3:22 am)Fenix Wrote: The shame you can feel, the self hatred is very real and very intense. Abortions should not be taken lightly and should not be ruled by people who have no understanding of what it takes to mentally (and physically) to prepare yourself for it.
I'm asking this lovingly out of curiosity. If you hate yourself for doing it, why did you do it? If you're concerned about the life of the child, why not carry it to term and give it up for adoption to a couple who really wants the baby? That would save the child and appease your guilt. It's something you could feel good about instead of carrying the guilt with you all your life.
