(June 10, 2014 at 3:51 pm)Luckie Wrote: I wonder naimless, why you think your situation is anything like his? Why you think your family is comprable to his? We all go through transitioning phases with our families and surprisingly (not) the transitions' difficulty is directly proportional to the reverence observed to religion by the family. Some religions are worse than others. Some families are worse than others. Cults are DEfinitely the hardest. Were you in a cult nameless? Did you react perfectly towards your family when you were being verbally attacked?
I still can't believe you guys keep blaming the victim. No, its NOT okay to rape a girl wearing a short skirt because she's wearing a short skirt, and no its not okay to defend the abuser. Anyone inducted into a cult and being emotionally blackmailed by their family deserves nothing but sympathy.
I never blamed him. I just said he wants to disown his father. I'm not judging that. As for being verbally attacked... if you knew my country, religion, and parents, you would not approach me in this way. But yes, the world is fucked. It's not ideal. So either compromise with the people you do not agree with or admit you are a lone soldier because you chose to be that way. e.g. your post was worthy of my consideration, but I disowned Big Wolf a long time ago.