(July 1, 2014 at 7:25 pm)Losty Wrote:(July 1, 2014 at 6:55 pm)blackout94 Wrote: Reflection is there to prevent people from committing acts without thinking, it's just an insurance or safety measure, yes most women think about it and the consequences but there will always be some who don't think clearly about it. It's just a safety mechanism, will it hurt you? No it won't.
Yes it will. I can't even wrap my mind around you telling me that this isn't hurtful. To be told that I am not intelligent enough to think things through. To be told that I am not competent enough to make decisions on my own. This hurts my dignity. It is humiliating and it is cruel to force me to reassess a very private decision with a stranger who doesn't know me or my circumstances. As hard as it may be for some people to believe, women are perfectly capable of thinking for themselves. I get up everyday and put my big girl panties on and run my life just fine without help. I make my own choices and am responsible for my own actions. And if I need to see a psychologist I can make that decision on my own as well.
Ok you are right, I'm sorry if I offended anyone with my comments. This isn't about saying women aren't capable of decisions, it's about some people in general, men or women, being too dumb to realize consequences of their actions. If people were responsible enough, they could make public decisions instead of electing politicians, but it wouldn't work.
Whoever fights monsters should see to it that in the process he does not become a monster. And if you gaze long enough into an abyss, the abyss will gaze back into you