There's a concept called "FLEAS" that you'll find a good explanation of on r/raisedbynarcissists that basically says that you can't escape 'catching' some of the same foibles as the people abusing you.
Abusers know what they're doing, for the most part. We can argue whether or not they're conscious of WHY they're doing what they're doing, but they definitely understand that they're hurting the person that they're abusing.
I didn't say that indoctrination only comes from abusive parents. I just don't consider indoctrination "abuse", necessarily.
Abusers know what they're doing, for the most part. We can argue whether or not they're conscious of WHY they're doing what they're doing, but they definitely understand that they're hurting the person that they're abusing.
I didn't say that indoctrination only comes from abusive parents. I just don't consider indoctrination "abuse", necessarily.
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