Challenge regarding Christian morality

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I've heard many, many cases where couples who can't stand being around each other any more separate, and this is way better for the children. And the cases where they fight and stay together, such as my parents, result in it being worse for the kids.

I appreciate your honest answers, it is very refreshing. I would agree that loving enemies is about the least obvious from among the possible positive moral teachings. I would still find it obvious myself, but I can't speak for everyone. It does require our critical thinking to overcome our emotions, in a lot of situations.