Faith healers equal dead kids

[Ksa]

The most dangerous person to you is not your worst enemy. Your worst enemy hurts you purposefully, so the amount of damage he can do to you will always be limited by his negative emotions that his evil doing triggers. At some point he may even say "he got what he deserved" and can even stop hurting you or even regret it and apologize later.

The person most dangerous to you is a loved one who is well intentioned towards you and hurts you thinking he's doing you good. Instead of being restrained by negative emotions, he is unleashed by positive emotions and nothing can ever stop the person. Unlike your worst enemy who wants to hurt you efficiently and at low cost, a loved one can invest an unlimited amount of time, effort and resources in doing so. So nothing can ever limit the amount of damage that person can do to you.

And rather than apologizing for hurting you, they can only blame you for being ungrateful towards them and accuse you for being evil, further hurting you. Many parents fit this category. Many spouses, many husbands. And you cannot blame them, because they mean you no harm, but harm is often done, often irreparable.