(April 19, 2015 at 2:37 pm)One Above All Wrote:(April 19, 2015 at 1:40 pm)emjay Wrote: But just so there are no misunderstandings, I am referring to two different potential choices in this post; one is the bisexual choice which may only apply to those with pre-existing attraction to both sexes, and the other is the initial fixation phase that I believe occurs in adolescence or thereabouts and from which the resulting attractions may be the basis for the bisexual choice, or not as the case may be.I've been attracted to both sexes since first grade. Never had a choice in the matter, in spite of my best efforts. Now what?
Nothing. You're you and I'm me. I put my energy, consciously or otherwise, and I think otherwise, into developing a gay identity when I was a teenager. But it could've gone the other way. It doesn't change the fact that I have, and will always have, attractions to both sexes in roughly equal measure, just that my primary focus is on men. It could've been on women, if I'd concentrated on that side instead.
