I am not an eye-reader or anything, but her problem might not be due to religion, many people turn towards religion due to some other problems in life. So your attempt at logically helping her through facebook might end up causing more stress instead. If possible, talk to her directly and figure things out and help her where she wants and needs it after you know her complete situation.
Quote:To know yet to think that one does not know is best; Not to know yet to think that one knows will lead to difficulty.
- Lau Tzu
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