(June 14, 2015 at 4:23 am)bennyboy Wrote: I'm not comparing rape and undisclosed boy parts on a scale of 1 to 10. I'm saying that there is likely to be trauma, and that the victim of the trauma is likely to feel demeaned and violated by a non-disclosure which is essentially an aggressive sexual act.
Didn't you say it's the same thing?
(June 13, 2015 at 8:21 pm)bennyboy Wrote: Just to show up in the bedroom without first addressing the issue would constitute, in my opinion, a category of rape or sexual abuse, because the psychological effects it could have are so predictable and powerful that a responsible person would take steps to avoid them. Saying the man involved shouldn't have that emotional reaction is like saying a raped girl shouldn't have that emotional reaction-- neither can help it, and both should be protected by law from being subjected to it.
