(June 14, 2015 at 7:46 pm)Yeauxleaux Wrote: Also how much of this "trauma" is really just worrying about what your straight "bros" will think of you sleeping with a transwoman? That's what it really comes down to, embarrassment that you pulled "one of them".
Look, stop trying to project onto me issues or attitudes that I don't have. I'm not a one-night stand guy, and I'm married. This is not a personal issue. I'm saying that I believe many men would be traumatized by a last-minute penis reveal, and would not be traumatized by a last-minute vagina reveal, and that a transwoman with a penis is therefore not equivalent to a woman.