(January 26, 2018 at 9:50 am)Mathilda Wrote: In my experience it is the complete opposite.
In the BDSM scene (which includes Christian BDSM), female submissives are rare and male subs are a dime a dozen because there are so many of them. There are far more male subs than male doms.
And you can't explain this as being about sex because it doesn't happen in a BDSM club. It's about the need to dominate or to submit.
And you think your experience in the BDSM scene is representative of the species as a whole because...?
Or were you just making an aside?