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RE: OK, so I just came out
May 3, 2012 at 7:14 pm
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(May 3, 2012 at 5:37 pm)gringoperry Wrote: It all started because I said I didn't feel god in my heart, and she said "Don't say that in case he punishes you by hurting our child". I just sort of mentally collapsed at that point. I couldn't keep up the lie any more.
This seems unhealthy. She is enslaved to her god by fear? Sick fucks.
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Also, I am not pretending to be female, this profile picture is my wonderful girlfriend. XD
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RE: OK, so I just came out
May 3, 2012 at 7:43 pm
kılıç,
his goal is to retain some fatherhood rights regarding his child. How will causing her pain in any way help him towards his goal?
I understand that to a hammer every problem looks like a nail but if you are trying to knit a sweater a hammer won't help you in the least. If you are trying to repair a stained glass window (i.e. a very delicate task) a hammer would only destroy the task at hand.
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RE: OK, so I just came out
May 3, 2012 at 8:45 pm
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(May 3, 2012 at 4:48 pm)gringoperry Wrote: I just came out on Facebook - of all places. Shortly after, I received a message from my pregnant, Catholic girlfriend, telling me she wanted nothing to do with me and that I would never see our child. You know what? I fucking crushed arthritis when doctors said I couldn't, so fuck that.
This bitch has bitten off more than she can chew. I am already a great father to two kids, so there is no way in hell that she's going to exclude me from my child's life.
Rant over, that is all.
She broke up with you on Facebook How cowardly and immature, what did you see in her? You are better off. Hope your kid has your genes.
(May 3, 2012 at 5:43 pm)gringoperry Wrote: I'm going to need donations to get to the US and mount a legal defense, so dig deep. :p
Just go watch Kerry kick ass in Hurling and Gaelic football and everything will be allright.
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RE: OK, so I just came out
May 3, 2012 at 9:29 pm
Oh, Gringo, that just reminded me. You won't need to come to the U.S. to mount a legal defense. Call her commanding officer. 
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RE: OK, so I just came out
May 4, 2012 at 5:36 am
What would I even say to him, Shelly?
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RE: OK, so I just came out
May 4, 2012 at 5:40 am
(May 3, 2012 at 5:43 pm)gringoperry Wrote: If it comes to it, I'm going to need donations to get to the US and mount a legal defense, so dig deep. :p She lives in the US?
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RE: OK, so I just came out
May 4, 2012 at 5:57 am
Yeah, she is in the army. We had planned to get married and she was going to move here. I'm still hoping for a reconciliation, once she understands that this does not mean that I'm a satan worshipper.
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RE: OK, so I just came out
May 4, 2012 at 6:05 am
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Ha ha, oh wow. Not laughing at you its just when you said "came out" I thought you meant that you'd announced you're gay.
Imagine my confusion when I read the whole thing.
But yeah, well done man. Brave thing you've done.
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RE: OK, so I just came out
May 4, 2012 at 6:13 am
(May 3, 2012 at 7:43 pm)Rhizomorph13 Wrote: kılıç,
his goal is to retain some fatherhood rights regarding his child. How will causing her pain in any way help him towards his goal?
I understand that to a hammer every problem looks like a nail but if you are trying to knit a sweater a hammer won't help you in the least. If you are trying to repair a stained glass window (i.e. a very delicate task) a hammer would only destroy the task at hand.
Fatherhood rights are a legal matter. It's not a matter of actually dealing with your enemy, the law does not need to know about personal feuds.
However to deal with someone that has wronged you, you must use everything in your disposal.
Besides, there is no knowing that when the enemy will strike back. If you take precautions and strip your enemy of his reputation, who will he have behind his back when the time comes for him to make his move?
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RE: OK, so I just came out
May 4, 2012 at 7:16 am
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I hope by "use everything in your disposal"you do not mean "punish them above the level they wronged you."
(May 3, 2012 at 4:48 pm)gringoperry Wrote: I just came out on Facebook - of all places. Shortly after, I received a message from my pregnant, Catholic girlfriend, telling me she wanted nothing to do with me and that I would never see our child. You know what? I fucking crushed arthritis when doctors said I couldn't, so fuck that.
This bitch has bitten off more than she can chew. I am already a great father to two kids, so there is no way in hell that she's going to exclude me from my child's life.
Rant over, that is all.
She's a catholic...
...Impregnated before you are married. Basically, she has had sex with you out of wedlock, GOING AGAINST ONE OF THE MAJOR TENETS OF CATHOLICISM...
And she's ostracizing you for being an atheist when she has YOUR KID.
Wow. WOOOW. What a fucking COW.
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