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OK, so I just came out
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LastPoet
 Leader of the gang of jerkoffs(tm)  Religious Views: L'Uomo verrà portato dalla sua creazione
I think the most important thing is for you to watch out for collateral damage i.e. kids. The whole situation is pure madness and she's blackmailing you with kids, and that is fucked up. In the end Catholicism (as its shown by her hypocrisy) its just an excuse for her selfish behaviour. You're in deep shit man, but I have no sure fire sollution. You may want to start keeping evidence of her behaviour in case you'll ever need it.
I agree that the most important thing above all is to retain custody of your child and to not let your child be adversely affected by it. Bickering about religion isn't worth it if A)you lose custody B)it upsets the child.
Even if the open windows of science at first make us shiver after the cozy indoor warmth of traditional humanizing myths, in the end the fresh air brings vigor, and the great spaces have a splendor of their own - Bertrand Russell
Gringo...yeah this "Good Catholic" is already screwed. I personally don't like her chances. Either way she is "fooked"
Personally I wound be demanding a DNA test. Then reporting her whole family to Community Services. "The Universe is run by the complex interweaving of three elements: energy, matter, and enlightened self-interest." G'Kar-B5
 (May 3, 2012 at 4:58 pm)gringoperry Wrote: It's further complicated by the fact that she is Dominican and her family believe in witchcraft. Their religion is a bastardisation of Catholicism and African Voodoo. Fuck me, how did I get myself into this shit... You did what your dick wanted. 
You can fix ignorance, you can't fix stupid. Tinkety Tonk and down with the Nazis.  RE: OK, so I just came out
May 4, 2012 at 11:19 am
(This post was last modified: May 4, 2012 at 11:21 am by Violet.)
(May 4, 2012 at 6:05 am)RaphielDrake Wrote: its just when you said "came out" I thought you meant that you'd announced you're gay. Too often this disappoints me at this forum  (May 4, 2012 at 8:18 am)Faith No More Wrote: Bickering about religion isn't worth it if B)it upsets the child. Lots of things upset children... not sure that was the word you wanted to use... Please give me a home where cloud buffalo roam
Where the dear and the strangers can play
Where sometimes is heard a discouraging word
But the skies are not stormy all day
 (May 4, 2012 at 11:19 am)Vaeolet Lilly Blossom Wrote:(May 4, 2012 at 6:05 am)RaphielDrake Wrote: its just when you said "came out" I thought you meant that you'd announced you're gay. Heheh, looootta closets to come out from, sexuality is only one of many. Shit, I still have to come out of the closet of [REDACTED] though that may or may not be for some time. I think he meant upset in the context of deliberately causing stress or strain to the emotional state of the child. Typical, average pediatric psychiatric profiles tends to show that witnessing parents arguing is detrimental to emotional growth in a child and should be either kept to a minimum or out of sight and hearing of the child. Though Gringo's child is facing even worse emotional damage; being brought up as a catholic.  (May 4, 2012 at 6:13 am)kılıç_mehmet Wrote: Fatherhood rights are a legal matter. You've obviously never dealt with custody situations. While the law can demand certain things of either or both of the parties involved, it is the goodwill between the two parties that will make any kind of kid exchange possible. Causing bad blood between a person you are trying to share custody of a child with, or in this case reconcile with completely and share a life, well, that is just dumb. He needs to speak with her and find some common ground, there is not enough force on the planet to make a woman do what she doesn't want to when it involves her child. |
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