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(December 2, 2015 at 12:33 pm)The_Empress Wrote: Browsing the forum, then I'll do my morning work. Later, I'm going to take the Coaster and my beach cruiser up to O'side to ride south, dropping off resumes again. I'm just going to hit the places I haven't been yet. I really need a (third) job, so wish me luck
Good Luck! Hope you find something that fits for you!
I see through your act and you don't like it. That's what it boils down to.
I don't have to accept any of your falseness or weak-hearted apologies. I have dealt with people like you in the past. You aren't the first of this type and you won't be the last. You attack people then beg for forgiveness then attack someone else. You feed off of this sort of thing and I feel sorry for you because clearly, your psychologist is at a loss as to how to help you. I've tried playing nice, being helpful and giving you some well intended advice. You choose to ignore any helpful advice that has come your way via these boards.
No one else is responsible for the way you feel except for YOU. This applies to everyone. Just as I am not going to be held responsible for your anger issues, no one else should be either. We are but strangers communicating on a forum via the internet. The only things we know about each other's real life situations are what we, as individuals, choose to put out there. And by we, I mean the collective members of this forum, not just yourself and myself. What you do at the end of the day in your real life is up to you. I refuse to be held to a higher standard than that which you refuse to hold yourself to. And I guess your apologies would seem more sincere if they weren't coupled with excuses as to why you behaved that way. Every person I've ever encountered with NPD always has an excuse that comes with an apology, and that is what makes it not believeable.
I'll tell you what I tell my kids: If you say you're sorry but continue doing the same things that you're apologizing for, then you aren't really sorry. You're just making excuses to smooth over the issues that got you in trouble in the first place.
Using a "priveledged life" as an excuse for your behavior is abhorrent. Lots of people come from priveledged upbringings and don't act in the manner that you do. It's time for you to grow up and start acting like you really want to be accountable for your actions instead of just hoping people will stop seeing through the mask you have up and be nice.
Disclaimer: I am only responsible for what I say, not what you choose to understand.
(November 14, 2018 at 8:57 pm)The Valkyrie Wrote: Have a good day at work. If we ever meet in a professional setting, let me answer your question now. Yes, I DO want fries with that.
(December 2, 2015 at 7:03 am)DespondentFishdeathMasochismo Wrote: Whatever mate. Your loss.
No "mate" your loss. If you hadn't said something so utterly unforgettably disgusting to bestest kitten, who knows, you might have had a chance to redeem all the other shit you've said on these forums and may have even been able to be a friend to both of us.
Quote:People on this forum acting like I did something wrong.
If you don't see what's wrong with telling someone as sweet and harmless as Losty (and why even say it to anyone?) that you would "punch them in the fucking face" then that just demonstrates how messed up you really are.
You truly have no idea what Losty has been through and how much you hurt her with that comment, nor do you deserve to know. Please get lost.
Yes, I spoke with her on Facebook after all the drama and I can vouch that she was upset and disturbed by it all.
But hey, it's all just words, yeah? Nothing to get upset about. Unless it's said by other people, then it's a grand conspiracy of course.
At the age of five, Skagra decided emphatically that God did not exist. This revelation tends to make most people in the universe who have it react in one of two ways - with relief or with despair. Only Skagra responded to it by thinking, 'Wait a second. That means there's a situation vacant.'
December 2, 2015 at 1:00 pm (This post was last modified: December 2, 2015 at 1:01 pm by DespondentFishdeathMasochismo.)
Quote:Judi Lynn
I see through your act and you don't like it. That's what it boils down to.
I don't have to accept any of your falseness or weak-hearted apologies. I have dealt with people like you in the past. You aren't the first of this type and you won't be the last. You attack people then beg for forgiveness then attack someone else. You feed off of this sort of thing and I feel sorry for you because clearly, your psychologist is at a loss as to how to help you. I've tried playing nice, being helpful and giving you some well intended advice. You choose to ignore any helpful advice that has come your way via these boards.
No one else is responsible for the way you feel except for YOU. This applies to everyone. Just as I am not going to be held responsible for your anger issues, no one else should be either. We are but strangers communicating on a forum via the internet. The only things we know about each other's real life situations are what we, as individuals, choose to put out there. And by we, I mean the collective members of this forum, not just yourself and myself. What you do at the end of the day in your real life is up to you. I refuse to be held to a higher standard than that which you refuse to hold yourself to. And I guess your apologies would seem more sincere if they weren't coupled with excuses as to why you behaved that way. Every person I've ever encountered with NPD always has an excuse that comes with an apology, and that is what makes it not believeable.
I'll tell you what I tell my kids: If you say you're sorry but continue doing the same things that you're apologizing for, then you aren't really sorry. You're just making excuses to smooth over the issues that got you in trouble in the first place.
Using a "priveledged life" as an excuse for your behavior is abhorrent. Lots of people come from priveledged upbringings and don't act in the manner that you do. It's time for you to grow up and start acting like you really want to be accountable for your actions instead of just hoping people will stop seeing through the mask you have up and be nice.
This is not a fucking act. You can't just project whatever straw man monster on me from people you've dealt with in the past. I don't know what the hell the rest of that was about, but I am not using my fucking background as an excuse. I am being self deprecating because I feel I haven't lived up to the standard that I feel I should have.
(December 2, 2015 at 1:00 pm)DespondentFishdeathMasochismo Wrote:
Quote:Judi Lynn
I see through your act and you don't like it. That's what it boils down to.
I don't have to accept any of your falseness or weak-hearted apologies. I have dealt with people like you in the past. You aren't the first of this type and you won't be the last. You attack people then beg for forgiveness then attack someone else. You feed off of this sort of thing and I feel sorry for you because clearly, your psychologist is at a loss as to how to help you. I've tried playing nice, being helpful and giving you some well intended advice. You choose to ignore any helpful advice that has come your way via these boards.
No one else is responsible for the way you feel except for YOU. This applies to everyone. Just as I am not going to be held responsible for your anger issues, no one else should be either. We are but strangers communicating on a forum via the internet. The only things we know about each other's real life situations are what we, as individuals, choose to put out there. And by we, I mean the collective members of this forum, not just yourself and myself. What you do at the end of the day in your real life is up to you. I refuse to be held to a higher standard than that which you refuse to hold yourself to. And I guess your apologies would seem more sincere if they weren't coupled with excuses as to why you behaved that way. Every person I've ever encountered with NPD always has an excuse that comes with an apology, and that is what makes it not believeable.
I'll tell you what I tell my kids: If you say you're sorry but continue doing the same things that you're apologizing for, then you aren't really sorry. You're just making excuses to smooth over the issues that got you in trouble in the first place.
Using a "priveledged life" as an excuse for your behavior is abhorrent. Lots of people come from priveledged upbringings and don't act in the manner that you do. It's time for you to grow up and start acting like you really want to be accountable for your actions instead of just hoping people will stop seeing through the mask you have up and be nice.
This is not a fucking act. You can't just project whatever straw man monster on me from people you've dealt with in the past. I don't know what the hell the rest of that was about, but I am not using my fucking background as an excuse. I am being self deprecating because I feel I haven't lived up to the standard that I feel I should have.
First, glad you realize you are self deprecating. Second, you realize you set a standard for yourself (or maybe others have set) that you don't feel you meet. Third, you are projecting your self loathing on to others. I've added you on Skype and see you've accepted, I think it's best to step away from this here.
We are not made happy by what we acquire but by what we appreciate.
(December 2, 2015 at 12:03 pm)Clueless Morgan Wrote: Me, too
On the up side, while putting him on "Ignore" I discovered that I had "Buddy List" requests so there's that... Still trying to work out what the buddy list does, though.
Sadly it was a futile effort. Even though I blocked him, apparently he could still see what I post so I gave up on the whole blocking thing.
I don't care if he can see what I post, the whole point of the ignore list is so you don't see what HE posts. (I see when people quote him, but I skip over that stuff.)
(December 2, 2015 at 12:28 pm)Judi Lynn Wrote: I have lived through my share of abusive, toxic people and over the years have come to the conclusion that if you give someone who is like this a second chance, they will invariably hurt you again the moment you don't give them what they want.
I'm willing to give people a second chance to show that they are capable of change or growth but this is at least partially because I hope people would be willing to give me a second chance when I come off as an asshole to them (and I can). But I only give one additional chance. In the words of Samantha from Sex and the City: "Fuck me badly once, shame on you. Fuck me badly twice, shame on me."
DFDM already got his second chance with me and he blew it. He doesn't get any more. (And from what I've seen of others who have continued to interact with him, he definitely doesn't deserve any more chances.)
Teenaged X-Files obsession + Bermuda Triangle episode + Self-led school research project = Atheist.
December 2, 2015 at 1:20 pm (This post was last modified: December 2, 2015 at 1:23 pm by Edwardo Piet.)
(December 2, 2015 at 8:17 am)Judi Lynn Wrote: If he can see this ( don't really know if when you block someone, they can see what you post), let me just fill you in on a little tidbit. The members of this forum do not actively seek out to attack people. People who are talked about in the manner in which YOU have been talked about have brought about the problems on themselves. You are no different. You are not special and you have disregarded several members of this forum, including myself and we are sick of you. If you want to accuse us of attacking you, insulting you and not showing you any respect it is because you have attacked first, insulted first and disrespected SEVERAL people here first.
You come into these forums, at first nice and polite. Then at the first instance someone rubs you the wrong way, you attack. You whine like a fucking two year old on just about every thread you have contributed to, then, instantly turn around with fake apologies and get mad when people don't take you seriously. If you have bi-polar, change up your meds because clearly you go from one extreme to the other. Your problem isn't with other members here. It is with yourself. You are so negative in one instant and then three posts later you do a complete 180 and apologize, only to turn around again and attack the next person who posts something that pisses you off. Clearly there are issues you seem to have in regards to the social aspects of this forum, and apparently life in general. Forum members are tired of the love-hate relationship you seem to be having with yourself. You ask for advice then admonish anyone who apparently isn't giving you the answer you wanted. Your negativity spreads like a cancer throughout these forums and here's why:
You have wished people would "fucking" die or are dead.
You hate everyone.
According to you, we are morons, stupid, assholes, ignorant, dumb and immature, just to name a few of the things you have called several members of this forum.
This twisted mind fuckery you are trying to play with certain forum members here isn't flying past anyone. Throwing insults having tantrums and then being hurt and wondering why people are making comments like the ones above isn't mature. You DEMAND respect, yet fail miserably to give that respect. You make insults and then have the sheer gull to wonder why no one wants to be nice to you.
Perhaps this isn't the place for you. Maybe what you need is a good dose of the real world to knock you back a few steps so that you can re-evaluate what you yourself are bringing to the table and think about why you are being responded to in the ways that have occured. Being nice to you doesn't work, as proof in other threads show because the instant someone says something you don't like, you go on the attack in a very nasty way. Saying you would punch someone in the face is tantamount to a five year old punching a kid at the playground because they have better toys in the sandbox than you.
GTFO. No one wants your negative, whiny, child-like tantrums clogging up perfectly good threads. Go bother another forum or maybe, get off your computer and go bother someone in a coffee shop. Clearly you have some social skills AND interpersonal skills you need to be working on.
Truly awesome post. Major kudos.
I have one very pedantic and minor nitpick however... when you said
Quote:You make insults and then have the sheer gull to wonder why no one wants to be nice to you.
(my bolding)
It was very much confusion-makingness to myself. I'm pretty sure you meant "sheer gall" right?
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