round 2 need urgent dating advice!

[BrianSoddingBoru4]

You need to double-bag it, hire a hooker, and calm the fuck down.

Boru

[Mystical]

what does double bag it even mean!?!

Leo: if I met a guy I was interested in I'd talk to him nonstop whenever I could. It would be like an instant connection and my whole day would be overshadowed by him, waiting for him to text me, sending him pics so he'd know I was thinking about him. Anyone I wasn't interested in I'd promise a date in the future (don't judge me!) then hope he'd forget after I didn't talk to him. If he was persistent I'd tell him straight up, but there are some crazy assholes out there so that's how I'd roll. Trying not to upset the crazies, looking for the one. I wasn't even looking for the one when I found him, I joined a forum that centered around my interests and he found me. We met and were inseparable. I suggest you yeah try to talk to her and if it doesn't work out find somewhere that you can be yourself and maybe you'll run into someone worthwhile..

[paulpablo]

Okay those of you following my dating site adventures, went on date with the girl last night, but we didn't really click.

This new girl started talking to me, and we have TONS in common, and i really like her, we hoping to go out this weekend or the next, but i'm scared because another girl planned to go out last week which we made plans a week in advance, but Idk if its cuz i didnt talk to her enough while waiting for the date, she just stopped talking to me and it didnt work out with her (another girl)

here is our conversation, the blue line are me, the pink lines are her.

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so basically i gave her my # last night, and she said ok....so when should i send her a message again on dating site just to check in on her? or should i just wait for if she sends me a text this weekend for the date? with one girl i felt like i didnt talk to her enough and she thought i wasnt interested or something.

so should i maybe not contact her today, but then send her a message tomorrow to see how she is doing? or maybe the day after and talk to her every other day or every 2 days until we meet? or everyday?

im kinda scared cuz this girl is pretty, pretty - and she online a lot so scared she will someone better but overall we click a lot I think.

thanks

You should never bother giving your number out to girls, the majority of them never ever make the first move and enjoy having the first move being made on them, them having your number is pointless. You should be using the dating sites to get their numbers.
The best way to make idle talk and wait for the date is probably to send whatsapp messages or txt every now and then and possibly a few phone calls but not too many.
You're the one who has to make the first phone call, decide where to go how to get there think of all the topics of convo and make all the jokes.

This is just an observation of the majority of the situations I've been in and there have been exceptions to these rules.

[BrianSoddingBoru4]

what does double bag it even mean!?!

It means to wear two (count 'em TWO!) condoms.

Boru

[Psykhronic]

That's a horrible idea...

[leodeo]

hey guys, i am going to send her 1 or 2 messages on dating on site MONDAY WEDNESDAY then FRIDAY hoping to go out to eat friday or saturday.

so what should i say n those messages? like "hi hows it going" each time? then "cool" when she replies?

[thesummerqueen]

This dude is obviously either 14 or a troll, guys. Stop giving him advice until he returns and displays 1) maturity, 2) a better stab at grammar, and 3) empathy for the women he's allegedly subjecting himself to in order to feel good about himself.

[freedomfromforum]

When you text her, ask her what she's wearing. However she replies, respond with a "Really, me too", and when she asks if you're serious, tell her "No, I'm just fucking around". Chicks really like that.

[pocaracas]

hey guys, i am going to send her 1 or 2 messages on dating on site MONDAY WEDNESDAY then FRIDAY hoping to go out to eat friday or saturday.

so what should i say n those messages? like "hi hows it going" each time? then "cool" when she replies?

In case it hasn't been obvious... grow up.
If you do contact her by text message, use correct grammar, complete sentences, the works.
If you've already been with her once, say you enjoyed it and would like to repeat it someday... like... next weekend?
But yeah... I don't know her, so I can't say... maybe she likes the "s'up girl?" comment and would think you're too stuck up if you use proper grammar... I'd run away from such girl, but meh... it's your life.

[Fruity]

This dude is obviously either 14 or a troll, guys. Stop giving him advice until he returns and displays 1) maturity, 2) a better stab at grammar, and 3) empathy for the women he's allegedly subjecting himself to in order to feel good about himself.

Agreed. 14 or troll.