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[The Valkyrie]

Bunch of Debbie Downers up in this piece......

Well, I think the OP is looking for a Debbie Goes Downer at this church.

Seriously, be honest. Is sticking your dick in someone really worth lying for?

Remember that doing so will just reinforce the stereotype of atheists.

[Jackalope]

All girls are different and I'm probably not the average girl, but I prefer lie free sexual experiences. I don't really care what your truth is if I find you attractive and you make me feel sexy it's almost always a go(barring stds and serial muderers). No need to lie to impress me.

Shit. It's always something.

[Losty]

I know I'm just damn so high maintenance hehe

[ignoramus]

Having grown up here in Au, it's hard to comprehend that there are town's around in America that are still stuck in the 50's with their dogmatic religious views. I s'pose there's no chance of a mosque going up there anytime soon.

At least it's good to know that their god and Jesus are both local all American white boys....

[Mister Agenda]

All girls are different and I'm probably not the average girl, but I prefer lie free sexual experiences. I don't really care what your truth is if I find you attractive and you make me feel sexy it's almost always a go(barring stds and serial muderers). No need to lie to impress me.

You always need to know your audience. If you're horny and you can only find women who need to be lied to, to be impressed enough to fuck you, lies are a valid approach, used with appropriate caution (do NOT tell her you are a first responder or a SEAL).

When you find one that doesn't need to be lied to, try and keep her. In the meantime, if it's the only way to get your dick wet, do what you have to or do without. Blame the game.

[JesusHChrist]

All girls are different and I'm probably not the average girl, but I prefer lie free sexual experiences. I don't really care what your truth is if I find you attractive and you make me feel sexy it's almost always a go(barring stds and serial muderers). No need to lie to impress me.

Well. The antibiotics seem to be working and how many before it counts as "serial"? Labels are so....gouche.

[ThomM]

My dads been going to this church near by to fix his marriage. He's ask me to go in his words" to get laid". I was half temped to fake being a xtain long enough for that reason, then tell her the truth afterwards. Still haven't went yet. I really hate churches. But there's not many atheist in my town.

Men had sex long before religions were invented= and long before marriage was invented as well

The bible says Solomon had 700 wives and 300 concubines -

Ask your dad why he has NO concubines?

[The Grand Nudger]

Well, I think the OP is looking for a Debbie Goes Downer at this church.

Seriously, be honest. Is sticking your dick in someone really worth lying for?

Remember that doing so will just reinforce the stereotype of atheists.

I'm not really worried about whatever stereotype somebody wants to foist upon atheists as a result of any comment I make. I'm not an elected ambassador. Besides, if they're of the stereotyping bent I doubt my participation is required, they've probably got it covered all by themselves.

I remember a girl who asked me for a smoke outside of a Chilis, we get to talking, the usual stuff, she asks me what I do and I give the usual rundown of my boring little job, when I asked her the same question out of habit/social convention, she looks me dead in the eye, licks her lips and says to me "I've been looking into contract killing". I shit you not, it was like magic. She was a chitchatter, an annoyance, a dull object in the periphery of my vision - but after that, with the smile on her face...I felt like a heat seeking missile. Was it true, of course not - she was a sweetheart, filed paperwork for an insurance company and never had a violent thought about anyone in all the time I stayed in touch after that. That's not who she wanted to be that night, and truthfully, I wouldn't have given her a second thought if she were anyone else - in that moment - and I'm willing to bet that she knew that. Delicious. For my part, I shamelessly lied all the way to the duvet. I'd do it again. Of course I never read Maya Angelou, and no I'm not interested in native american ritual dance, the only thing that fascinated me that night was the girl herself, and not so much who she was but who she wanted to be - even if it was just for the evening. Now the next morning - that was some funny shit. Because even though I love a good lie more than most - I have no patience for maintaining the lies I tell, especially the lies told between the sheets.

If you told me that you'd never told a little white lie to get in some lucky guys pants I probably wouldn't call you a fibber outright - but I'd be thinking it. You've never feigned interest in something that bored the shit out of you because you really wanted somebody? Never done the whole "I've never done this before" routine? Never played the good girl when all you wanted was some strange - for whatever reason? Never whispered into the ear of a lover to get them there? Are those lies? People probably answer that question in different ways, but in the end I don't see why we endlessly moralize over sex and honesty.

So yeah, if injecting a little fantasy into the brief encounters we have with other people can make their night, or yours, you get my stamp of approval. Lie your ass off, lie through your teeth, and lighten up a little bit. It's worth it.

@ Losty, Being made to feel sexy is important, eh? So lets assume that all of those sweet nothings that made you feel sexy were bold faced lies delivered by an experienced operator. Is it more important to your experience that your stud be truthful, or that he can deliver? Just food for thought........since I've been lured into being serious.