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After Months Of Procrastination
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After Months Of Procrastination
Turned my membership resignation letter in to the Church today. One via email to the records office, one parcel to the recorders office, one parcel to my stake president, and one parcel to my branch president.

Can you tell I wanted to make sure this would happen on the first go? 4 contact methods and it better work.

Been holding off for nearly nine months. Something about it scares me. Afraid it will some how reach the ears of my family and start another fire. Things are pretty quiet now. Lost everyone with the exception of my family. But if this warrants the final disown gesture from my family and a permanent one this time, I wont be too bummed out. After some time you get used to being alone that being alone becomes home. I'm not going to force people to stay in my life.

Anyways, time to catch some sleep and focus on studies and the job search tomorrow.

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Letter:

This letter is my formal resignation from the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and it is effective immediately. I hereby withdraw my consent to being treated as a member and I withdraw my consent to being subject to church rules, policies, beliefs and 'discipline'. As I am no longer a member, I want my name permanently and completely removed from the membership rolls of the church. My resignation should be processed immediately, without any 'waiting periods'. I am not going to be dissuaded and I am not going to change my mind.

I have given this matter considerable thought. I understand what you consider the 'seriousness' and the 'consequences' of my actions. I am aware that the church handbook says that my resignation "cancels the effects of baptism and confirmation, withdraws the priesthood held by a male member and revokes temple blessings" I also understand that I will be "readmitted to the church by baptism only after a thorough interview". I expect this matter to be handled promptly, with respect and with full confidentiality.

After today, the only contact I want from the church is a single letter of confirmation to let me know that I am no longer listed as a member of the church. I am not interested in second chance advertisements or reading suggestions presented to salvage my "salvation." I no longer identify with any of the beliefs and dogmas that the Church has to offer so I suggest that the Church saves some postage. I would love to spend time explaining my "apostasy" and my reasons for leaving but instead I will leave with two very important quotes that started it all:

“Well, we have nothing to hide. Our history is an open book. They may find what they are looking for, but the fact is the history of the church is clear and open and leads to faith and strength and virtues.”
- President Gordon B. Hinckley

"If we have the truth, [it] cannot be harmed by investigation. If we have not the truth, it ought to be harmed."
- J. Reuben Clark, counselor in the First Presidency


Hence the words that started a vigilant search for truth in my life, granted by the establishment itself.

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Disclaimer: For many ex-mormons, resigning is kind of a big thing. Something incredibly difficult to do for some. So if I come off pretentious, I assure I only mean to convey triumphant feelings of freedom. Well at least this time, I can have a tendency to be pretentious. haha.
"Just call me Bruce Wayne. I'd rather be Batman."
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#2
RE: After Months Of Procrastination
Gratz.
I am the Infantry. I am my country’s strength in war, her deterrent in peace. I am the heart of the fight… wherever, whenever. I carry America’s faith and honor against her enemies. I am the Queen of Battle. I am what my country expects me to be, the best trained Soldier in the world. In the race for victory, I am swift, determined, and courageous, armed with a fierce will to win. Never will I fail my country’s trust. Always I fight on…through the foe, to the objective, to triumph overall. If necessary, I will fight to my death. By my steadfast courage, I have won more than 200 years of freedom. I yield not to weakness, to hunger, to cowardice, to fatigue, to superior odds, For I am mentally tough, physically strong, and morally straight. I forsake not, my country, my mission, my comrades, my sacred duty. I am relentless. I am always there, now and forever. I AM THE INFANTRY! FOLLOW ME!
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#3
RE: After Months Of Procrastination
Dude! Clap
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#4
RE: After Months Of Procrastination
Good for you, Q.

They're sure to come back at you, IMO, despite your clear desires for them not to. Post here if you need to vent or talk.

Smile
Nolite te bastardes carborundorum.
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#5
RE: After Months Of Procrastination
Congratulations Hug
(August 21, 2017 at 11:31 pm)KevinM1 Wrote: "I'm not a troll"
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Hammy Wrote:and we also have a sheep on our bed underneath as well
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#6
RE: After Months Of Procrastination
I hope the future goes well, as I have heard many ex mormons can have certain difficulties.
To-morrow, and to-morrow, and to-morrow,
Creeps in this petty pace from day to day,
To the last syllable of recorded time;
And all our yesterdays have lighted fools
The way to dusty death. Out, out, brief candle!
Life's but a walking shadow, a poor player,
That struts and frets his hour upon the stage,
And then is heard no more. It is a tale
Told by an idiot, full of sound and fury,
Signifying nothing.
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#7
RE: After Months Of Procrastination
Good job Quantum! And good luck with those tricky bastards!
"Every luxury has a deep price. Every indulgence, a cosmic cost. Each fiber of pleasure you experience causes equivalent pain somewhere else. This is the first law of emodynamics [sic]. Joy can be neither created nor destroyed. The balance of happiness is constant.

Fact: Every time you eat a bite of cake, someone gets horsewhipped.

Facter: Every time two people kiss, an orphanage collapses.

Factest: Every time a baby is born, an innocent animal is severely mocked for its physical appearance. Don't be a pleasure hog. Your every smile is a dagger. Happiness is murder.

Vote "yes" on Proposition 1321. Think of some kids. Some kids."
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#8
RE: After Months Of Procrastination
Keep us posted, it would be interesting to know how they react.
'The more I learn about people the more I like my dog'- Mark Twain

'You can have all the faith you want in spirits, and the afterlife, and heaven and hell, but when it comes to this world, don't be an idiot. Cause you can tell me you put your faith in God to put you through the day, but when it comes time to cross the road, I know you look both ways.' - Dr House

“Young earth creationism is essentially the position that all of modern science, 90% of living scientists and 98% of living biologists, all major university biology departments, every major science journal, the American Academy of Sciences, and every major science organization in the world, are all wrong regarding the origins and development of life….but one particular tribe of uneducated, bronze aged, goat herders got it exactly right.” - Chuck Easttom

"If my good friend Doctor Gasparri speaks badly of my mother, he can expect to get punched.....You cannot provoke. You cannot insult the faith of others. You cannot make fun of the faith of others. There is a limit." - Pope Francis on freedom of speech
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#9
RE: After Months Of Procrastination
So what happens if you don't resign?

I resigned from my church (the salvation army), demanding I be struck from their records, which they did. I was just that antagonistic against them at the time. I'm over it now/ I don't hate them any longer. My wife and kids are still in it, and I help them (my now local corp) out now and then. Can't quite stomach a service tho', and I now align myself with their beliefs.
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#10
RE: After Months Of Procrastination
Quantum1Connect :

Did you consider a schism, starting your own LDS variant ?? You might be the next Bickerton !!!


Thinking
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