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I need some advice
#31
RE: I need some advice
Drich, why are you here?
All I can see is bitter and nasty troublemaker.
Why don't you follow your own advice?
Your not blending in and this is the last place you'll find sheep.
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#32
RE: I need some advice
(September 22, 2014 at 10:56 am)Lemonvariable72 Wrote: Drich let me level with you. This isnt something that is funny and because you think its I can't take anything you say seriously. I understand you had your troubles in the past as well
you asked if I have ever been bullied.. I thought you were joking. Christian on an all atheist forum... Everything I say is scrutinized heavily. To have me respond to your question making light of my own situation should have told you that the world does not end (for me) when people oppose me.

Quote:but let me tell you, I have been in this situation before too and of does not work.
the end result is not the ultimate goal here. It is how you perceive yourself and how you manage your interactions with others. Remember you/we are the square pegs to soceity's round hole. So instead trying to force yourself into a social situation that does not fit you (a place or job that will not accommodate your best efforts to fit in.) look for one that will.

Be honest with yourself and how other perceive you. Learn how to use this to your advantage. Play on perceptions and ride the stereotypes to your advantage, and when people think they have you pegged, and get comfortable or lazy around you leave them in your wake. Not that you need be dishonest, just let them think what they will till they get comfortable and lazy, then let your light shine.
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Quote:Once someone picks you as a target, it doesn't matter of you change that one behavior or not because even if you do change they will just find another reason so long as your still a target. That is the trick here, make yourself not a target any more in a responsible way.

Ratting people out is not a good way to become a smaller target.

(September 22, 2014 at 1:16 pm)Little lunch Wrote: Drich, why are you here?
to hand out cookies and buttwhoopins! But I ran out of cookies.
Quote:All I can see is bitter and nasty troublemaker.
Cat

Who? Mee??!
Quote:Why don't you follow your own advice?
Actually I have. I have taken my whole way of thinking/thought process and tried to make it as people friendly as I can. I like Mr. Granden here am so visual I can not process input anyother way. Which people take as a disability. So I have taken people's perceptions and played the retard they perceive me to be... Until oppertunity presents itself to turn the tables on those who would look to keep me under their thumbs. I have done this starting by just bearly getting a job mopping floors after mechanics, to becoming one, to manager, to location/branch manager, to being hired away from that job and given a partnership in a company, to two year later owning the company, to buying into a franchise, to being offered a corporate trainer job (which I hated) for said franchise, to consulting engineer on special projects, to project lead, to US patent holderx2, all the while growing my business from one service truck and working out of my dads garage, to trich's dad's shop, to a 3500 sqft place to a 10,000 sqft air conditioned production facility. To last week opening a car dealership to sell our completely upfited refrigerated cargo vans we produce.

So yeah, I've followed my own advise, to some marginal success, and [/quote][/code]as the Lord allows.

People like lemon could rule the world if they stop trying to fit in and try and force others to pretend their is no difference between them.

Quote:Your not blending in and this is the last place you'll find sheep.
I've been here for some time, what makes you think I haven't already found a flock?
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#33
RE: I need some advice
Oh, I'm sure Drich will help this conversation along.

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#34
RE: I need some advice
Drich and his secret flock. You've been making that implication pretty much since arrival, eh? Look, I don't wanna know, and I don;t even wanna think about it if you and a couple of the other christer loons are having an rp circlejerk using our private messaging system. Wink Shades
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