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RE: Will you raise your children as Atheists?
December 18, 2014 at 6:38 am
I told my kids to question everything and look at the facts not the opinions, both grew up to be fairly sane atheist adults
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RE: Will you raise your children as Atheists?
December 18, 2014 at 6:47 am
(December 17, 2014 at 7:46 pm)Kloud Wrote: I realize some of you may already have children, and I'd rather not edit the title with every grammar possibility.
If you are to have children, will you raise them as an Atheist? I think If I have children, I'm not going to raise them with the bullshit of Christianity, but I'm not going to force Atheism on my child, I'll teach him evolution and science, but I won't tell him that some magical man in the sky created the universe, what about you?
I would no more impose atheism on my son than religion. My job is to bring him up so that he is able to make his own informed decisions about the world, which I accept, no matter what he decides.
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RE: Will you raise your children as Atheists?
December 18, 2014 at 7:32 am
I'd raise them as intelligent human beings. If they conclude there's evidence for one or more deities, that's that. I'm not even sure how one can "raise a child as an atheist".
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RE: Will you raise your children as Atheists?
December 18, 2014 at 7:34 am
(This post was last modified: December 18, 2014 at 7:36 am by robvalue.)
I suppose you could raise them to be a gnostic atheist through the same indoctrination religions use. It would again be child abuse and pointless. Just condition them with threats and rewards until they can think no differently.
In fact, religions do this too. As well as abusing their child into accepting their religion, they abuse them into being atheists against all other religions.
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RE: Will you raise your children as Atheists?
December 18, 2014 at 9:33 am
(December 17, 2014 at 7:46 pm)Kloud Wrote: If you are to have children, will you raise them as an Atheist? Since atheism is the default position, I won't have to. I simply won't indoctrinate them. As long as they can think critically, the results are almost inevitable.
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RE: Will you raise your children as Atheists?
December 18, 2014 at 4:44 pm
(December 18, 2014 at 9:33 am)Ben Davis Wrote: (December 17, 2014 at 7:46 pm)Kloud Wrote: If you are to have children, will you raise them as an Atheist? Since atheism is the default position, I won't have to. I simply won't indoctrinate them. As long as they can think critically, the results are almost inevitable.
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RE: Will you raise your children as Atheists?
December 18, 2014 at 4:57 pm
If I ever have kids I'll encourage them to think for themselves and make their own choices.
If they want to go to church they can, depending on their age and with adult supervision.
If they want to become religious, I won't stop them, so long as they're old enough to understand the consequences of their choice.
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RE: Will you raise your children as Atheists?
December 18, 2014 at 6:46 pm
(December 17, 2014 at 8:07 pm)Minimalist Wrote: Indeed, I did. One is 37 and the other is 34 and both think religion is a pile of shit.
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RE: Will you raise your children as Atheists?
December 19, 2014 at 1:02 pm
My son is 27 and my daughter is 24. My wife is the type of Christian that doesn't attend church and doesn't care to talk about religion. She believes in the non-biblical all good and all loving God/Jesus that she remembers from her youth. I think it gives her bedtime prayers an imagined destination.
We never took the kids to church. There were no prayers before dinner and no indoctrination. The only time religion came up is when the kids would come home with a question based on some influence from outside the home. Before this morning I couldn't honestly say exactly what my children's specific thoughts were about religion. I still can't tell you what my son thinks although I know he doesn't attend church. It's simply that inconsequential.
This morning, my daughter affirmed that she doesn't believe. This came out as a simple matter of fact while she was sharing her frustration with extended family members pressuring her to baptize my 10 month old granddaughter. Knowing me, she preemptively told me that telling them all to fuck off wasn't an option for her. I told her to get the Methodists and Presbyterians involved to discuss this with other family members that are Pentecostal and Baptist. She should only consider the proposed baptism once they all agree on the course of action. Problem solved.
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RE: Will you raise your children as Atheists?
December 19, 2014 at 1:54 pm
(December 19, 2014 at 1:02 pm)Cato Wrote: She should only consider the proposed baptism once they all agree on the course of action. Problem solved.
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