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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 27, 2015 at 3:45 pm
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(April 26, 2015 at 6:46 pm)SteelCurtain Wrote: (April 26, 2015 at 6:12 pm)pauloroberts Wrote: No the advice has been stupid. Now that I know what she was all along, I'm not happy about it. Her ability to bond has been compromised severely, and she has devalued herself.
To be clear -- You don't like the advice we've given, and that's fine. Hard to call it stupid. You have every right to not be happy about this; if it's a deal breaker it's a deal breaker.
But don't get it twisted. You have compromised your ability to bond with her. And you have devalued her. Keep it on your side of the street. These are your judgements of her.
There are many men who are not insecure about their sexual performance who would not go with a promiscuous woman (or whatever other term might be appropriate, if you catch my drift).
Promiscuity in women has been proven over and over again to be linked with an inability to bond. It is a well known fact.
Sucking off 2 men in an alleyway is not what I would call being in touch with her sexuality. Do you think that's classy? Same goes for all the other depraved things she's done.
I've been reading all the comments and chuckling to myself at the ignorance on this subject.
Anyway, don't let me get in the way. Do carry on.
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 27, 2015 at 3:51 pm
(April 27, 2015 at 3:45 pm)pauloroberts Wrote: (April 26, 2015 at 6:46 pm)SteelCurtain Wrote: To be clear -- You don't like the advice we've given, and that's fine. Hard to call it stupid. You have every right to not be happy about this; if it's a deal breaker it's a deal breaker.
But don't get it twisted. You have compromised your ability to bond with her. And you have devalued her. Keep it on your side of the street. These are your judgements of her.
There are many men who are not insecure about their sexual performance who would not go with a promiscuous woman (or whatever other term might be appropriate, if you catch my drift).
Promiscuity in women has been proven over and over again to be linked with an inability to bond. It is a well known fact.
Sucking off 2 men in an alleyway is not what I would call being in touch with her sexuality. Do you think that's classy? Same goes for all the other depraved things she's done.
I've been reading all the comments and chuckling to myself at the ignorance on this subject.
Anyway, don't let me get in the way. Do carry on. My reply to that would be; it's none of your fucking business what she did before she met you, either way.
You come across as an incredibly insecure, judgemental, paranoid little man, and you do not deserve her love and attachment. Do the right thing, and let her go, so she can find someone who isn't cataclysmically retarded.
You came to this forum asking for advice, assuming you weren't trolling to begin with. When advice was given, you proceeded to dish out insults and bile left right and center. You are either a troll, or a highly unpleasant human being overall. I pity the woman who gave you her trust.
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 27, 2015 at 4:01 pm
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 27, 2015 at 4:22 pm
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I doubt very seriously the OP even has a girlfriend.
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 27, 2015 at 4:24 pm
His girlfriend must be very deflated after reading this.
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 27, 2015 at 4:25 pm
(April 27, 2015 at 3:45 pm)pauloroberts Wrote: There are many men who are not insecure about their sexual performance who would not go with a promiscuous woman (or whatever other term might be appropriate, if you catch my drift).
Promiscuity in women has been proven over and over again to be linked with an inability to bond. It is a well known fact.
Sucking off 2 men in an alleyway is not what I would call being in touch with her sexuality. Do you think that's classy? Same goes for all the other depraved things she's done.
I've been reading all the comments and chuckling to myself at the ignorance on this subject.
Anyway, don't let me get in the way. Do carry on.
So your response to me is to spout out more of your own judgements of this woman.
A person's past does not necessarily reflect who they are in the now. I was a typical post-adolescent man child in my early twenties. I played college football, had an ego the size of Jupiter, and I went to college parties as if my shit smelled pretty. I had sex quite a bit.
My priorities changed when I was about 26. I cannot chalk it up to anything other than maturing. It was no longer about sowing my wild oats, as it were, and more about forming a connection. I am not ashamed of my past. I was a superlative form of a typical college student.
My current girlfriend has no problem forming a connection with me, nor I to her.
Seriously, what are you doing here unless you're just fanning the flames to keep the thread alive? You didn't get the 'advice' or input you were looking for. We overwhelmingly see you as an insecure, judgmental asshat.
Go away if you're not here to engage.
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 27, 2015 at 4:25 pm
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(April 27, 2015 at 4:24 pm)robvalue Wrote: His girlfriend must be very deflated after reading this.
http://www.city-data.com/forum/relations...exual.html
http://www.thethinkingatheist.com/forum/...exual-past
http://talkaboutmarriage.com/general-rel...-past.html
Same post on different forums. The guys a troll
He apparently posted on this site also but the mods removed his post for breaking forum rules.
http://www.rationalskepticism.org/genera...49312.html
I could probably find more.
What makes a person want to post the same BS on so many different forums? Are they desperate for attention?
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 27, 2015 at 4:26 pm
He did it on TTA as well.
"There remain four irreducible objections to religious faith: that it wholly misrepresents the origins of man and the cosmos, that because of this original error it manages to combine the maximum servility with the maximum of solipsism, that it is both the result and the cause of dangerous sexual repression, and that it is ultimately grounded on wish-thinking." ~Christopher Hitchens, god is not Great
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 27, 2015 at 4:28 pm
I think we've pretty well established that this douchecopter is a troll.
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RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
April 27, 2015 at 4:46 pm
Sure, he's a troll. But I'd like to say for the record that I enjoyed his girlfriend very much.
But not as much as I enjoyed his mother.
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