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RE: Where is everybody when it comes to 1 Corinthians 7:3-5?
July 6, 2015 at 9:10 am
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(July 6, 2015 at 8:32 am)Nope Wrote: It surprises me how often I find reason to feel lucky that I'm not a Christian any longer.
Well this is actually more unique to Catholicism and Fundamentalists , few branches of Christianity take such a hybrid view swinging between clinical and stone age as they do.
Kinda glad I missed out on this too.
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RE: Where is everybody when it comes to 1 Corinthians 7:3-5?
July 6, 2015 at 10:37 am
Once again literal. Back then marriage was a huge deal. You weren't supposed to be touched until marriage. If a woman proclaimed purity, and lied then it showed her not to be pure of heart and in turn could be detrimental to society. Very simple. Not literal. And I'm certain that man looked at it wrong, and acted on it in haste, and assumption.
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RE: Where is everybody when it comes to 1 Corinthians 7:3-5?
July 6, 2015 at 10:40 am
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RE: Where is everybody when it comes to 1 Corinthians 7:3-5?
July 6, 2015 at 10:43 am
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(July 6, 2015 at 10:37 am)popsthebuilder Wrote: Once again literal. Back then marriage was a huge deal. You weren't supposed to be touched until marriage. If a woman proclaimed purity, and lied then it showed her not to be pure of heart and in turn could be detrimental to society. Very simple. Not literal. And I'm certain that man looked at it wrong, and acted on it in haste, and assumption.
It's still a big deal to Christians, not being able to get an erection is grounds to be forbidden to marry.
Women didn't proclaim purity back then, it was expected and if they were thought lacking...Well they wouldn't enjoy the result. Didn't die of then either, plenty off Irish girls got chucked into the Magdalene Laundries just for being pretty or kissing a boy.
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RE: Where is everybody when it comes to 1 Corinthians 7:3-5?
July 6, 2015 at 10:50 am
(July 6, 2015 at 10:43 am)Metis Wrote: (July 6, 2015 at 10:37 am)popsthebuilder Wrote: Once again literal. Back then marriage was a huge deal. You weren't supposed to be touched until marriage. If a woman proclaimed purity, and lied then it showed her not to be pure of heart and in turn could be detrimental to society. Very simple. Not literal. And I'm certain that man looked at it wrong, and acted on it in haste, and assumption.
It's still a big deal to Christians, not being able to get an erection is grounds to be forbidden to marry.
Women didn't proclaim purity back then, it was expected and if they were thought lacking...Well they wouldn't enjoy the result. Didn't die of then either, plenty off Irish girls got chucked into the Magdalene Laundries just for being pretty or kissing a boy. Truly man's twisted, contorted ways are a real shame and big problem.
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RE: Where is everybody when it comes to 1 Corinthians 7:3-5?
July 6, 2015 at 10:51 am
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(July 5, 2015 at 11:15 pm)popsthebuilder Wrote: That's not what I got but, if someone was completely rebellious in a negative manner towards all good then he would be a burden on life and surely commit atrocities so yeah for the greater good and to limit suffering in the future I could almost understand it. I would prefer to read it for myself. Where can I find it in text? He wrote Deuteronomy 21 three times.
Are you being willfully ignorant?
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RE: Where is everybody when it comes to 1 Corinthians 7:3-5?
July 6, 2015 at 10:53 am
(July 6, 2015 at 10:51 am)LostLocke Wrote: (July 5, 2015 at 11:15 pm)popsthebuilder Wrote: That's not what I got but, if someone was completely rebellious in a negative manner towards all good then he would be a burden on life and surely commit atrocities so yeah for the greater good and to limit suffering in the future I could almost understand it. I would prefer to read it for myself. Where can I find it in text? He wrote Deuteronomy 21 three times.
Are you being willfully ignorant? No. I try my damndest not to be.
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RE: Where is everybody when it comes to 1 Corinthians 7:3-5?
July 6, 2015 at 11:09 am
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Quote:what if... the bible didn't actually authorize rape, but instead tell MARRIED Couples that we should not just think of ourselves and only have sex when both are in desperate need of it. What if, the bible says that we should be mindful of our spouse' needs and provide them with sex even if we are not in desperate need of it?
I don't understand how you are using the word desperate in this context, Drich?
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Quote: This verse was a huge problem back when I was a sex repulsed catholic, also when I thought I was asexual. I didn't want to have to consent to sexual encounters because it grossed me out. I can't even begin to imagine what it would be like if my girlfriend and I were in a catholic marriage and I had to submit to her while I was repulsed. To this day, I'm still repulsed by certain activities.
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Quote:Then maybe you shouldn't get married. Because marriage is not about you. You seem to be more worried about you than providing for your spouse. What Paul is saying here is Sex is indeed apart of the provision/obligation married couples have to one another. If you can't provide for her then maybe it is best you do not marry someone you know going into a relationship you cant provide for. Because ultimately it will fail.
Some people are asexual and can be in happy, in a committed relationship. Of course, both individuals should go into the marriage aware that they probably are going to have very little sex
Quote:Actually it does. If you read the whole chapter Paul says unless you burn with uncontrollable sexual desire, you should get married.
Don't get married just to have sex. Seriously. Don't. Have sex with buddies who want casual sex or masturbate but don't get married until you are ready and you know the other person very well.
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RE: Where is everybody when it comes to 1 Corinthians 7:3-5?
July 6, 2015 at 11:18 am
(July 6, 2015 at 11:09 am)Nope Wrote: Don't get married just to have sex. Seriously. Don't. Have sex with buddies who want casual sex or masturbate but don't get married until you are ready and you know the other person very well.
It's actually quite a beautiful control system for mass producing new believers isn't it?
Most people are hard wired to want sex, but they can't have sex unless they get married.
Even amongst asexuals some want companionship, but this companionship is forbidden and only accessible through marriage.
You can only get married if you agree to make lots of new believers, and if you don't follow this plan to hell you go!
I can't help but think whoever came up with this is nothing short of a genius, no wonder it caught on so quick with the Roman leadership. It's a perfect recipe for mass producing automaton soldiers while avoiding most the messy family situations that could reduce production rates and ensuring a crop from those who might not otherwise produce.
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RE: Where is everybody when it comes to 1 Corinthians 7:3-5?
July 6, 2015 at 12:14 pm
(July 6, 2015 at 8:42 am)Drich Wrote: Again that type of selfish behavior simply means your are not ready to enter into what it means to be married. Because again, Marriage is not about you first. It is about providing for your spouse's needs and then your own. If you put the other person first and she yours you will truly know love and respect in the full fillment of your needs through the actions of your spouse.
Okay. Let's humor your argument.
(1) Marriage according to the CATHOLICS is about procreation. But in REALITY, marriage is not about that. It's about how much you love your spouse. So, therefore sex is not obligatory.
(2) Your argument tries to refute the fact that the passage doesn't take into consideration certain circumstances. Are you saying a sterile couple shouldn't get married? How about an Asexual couple who don't feel sexual attraction to each other, thus being indifferent to sex, and therefore mutually don't feel the need to have sex, and most likely don't have it? Are you saying that they shouldn't get married? How about Homosexual couples? (Oh, wait, homosexuality is a sin. Oops! Sorry.) What about disabled people? Should they abstain from marriage?
There's too many problems with your rebuttal that raises more questions than it answers.
The point I'm trying to make is that the catholic church has it all backwards regarding marriage. You're not supposed to have sex before marriage, and you're not supposed to masturbate... EVER. The belief that masturbation is a sin is just plain ridiculous. Me touching myself in the privacy of my own bedroom, where nobody is watching, has nothing to do with anybody, is a highly personal act to me, and doesn't harm anybody. Not even God. I don't care if he hates it. It's none of his business. So, if I were in a catholic marriage, then no, I will not have sex if I don't want it, and I will not be obligated by a holy book written by ancient homophobic, misogynist, sadistic, racist bullies to submit, and if I want to go solo, I'll go solo. If god doesn't like it, he can kiss my @$$. Oh, wait... is that sex to him?
And I never said my girlfriend was my spouse, I was talking about if we were in a marriage. Sorry if I wasn't clear about that.
If pinkie pie isn't real, then how do you explain the existence of ponies, huh? If ponies are real, then that's proof that Pinkie Pie is real. Checkmate, christians! 
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