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RE: Come On Girls, Do You Part
November 23, 2015 at 11:27 pm
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Yes, if someone expresses that they're not interested in you romantically, sexually, platonically, or in any other manner, you should shrug it off. You cannot insist people want or desire you, if they don't.
No one owes you attention or sex by virtue of the fact that you simply want it.
That's insanity.
Why should your want be given more consideration than the want of someone to NOT be bothered with you?
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RE: Come On Girls, Do You Part
November 24, 2015 at 12:04 am
(November 23, 2015 at 10:21 pm)Kitan Wrote: That was not the point I was raising, though well stated.
There are guys who are genuine in who they are and they try their hardest to get a date with an attractive girl.
Unfortunately, these princesses think they are too good for the likes of those guys, and the guy is supposed to just shrug it off?
I know girls who become extremely pissed when guys ignore them, so imagine how much harder it is for guys who are ignored by girls.
I am not stating that one should just form a relationship out of pity, but one should always be more careful in how one reacts with another, especially in letting that person down.
true that. Its one thing to say "no thanks im not interested." this would be fine and any adverse reaction to this is just the fault of the guy/girl who cant understand a polite no. Its another thing to say "OMG yur disgusting get the fuck away from me" when all he or she did was ask for the chance.
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RE: Come On Girls, Do You Part
November 24, 2015 at 12:12 am
There really ought to be a comma after the "On" in the thread title. The lack of one made me think this was going to be about something else.
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RE: Come On Girls, Do You Part
November 24, 2015 at 2:26 am
(November 24, 2015 at 12:04 am)loganonekenobi Wrote: (November 23, 2015 at 10:21 pm)Kitan Wrote:
true that. Its one thing to say "no thanks im not interested." this would be fine and any adverse reaction to this is just the fault of the guy/girl who cant understand a polite no. Its another thing to say "OMG yur disgusting get the fuck away from me" when all he or she did was ask for the chance.
People should also be aware that they can come off as creeps when they "ask for a chance" repeatedly. Or follow and leer. I don't think some men realize how frightening attempts to "express interest" can seem from the other side.
I'm generally curt, and occasionally rude when strange men approach me out of nowhere and think I'm obligated to care that they're interested. I don't know these men or what they have in mind. Self-preservation is my primary concern, not soothing their ego.
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RE: Come On Girls, Do You Part
November 24, 2015 at 8:36 am
(November 23, 2015 at 11:16 pm)vorlon13 Wrote: Ted Bundy didn't lack for female company . . .
Actually he did and was pretty lonely. For starters he was born out of wedlock and because shame imposed by religion he had to be abandoned by his mother for few days so she could adopt him for some reason and he showed psychopathic tendencies toward women from very early age, like putting knives in his aunt's bed when he was 3 years old - after which she was afraid of him.
Later on he did have problems being in relationships because he was really immature. He would do really childish stuff like sneaking behind his girlfriend, tapping her on the shoulder and then hiding. Not unlike Elliot Rodger because when some guy complains he can't find a girlfriend it's because he's immature and thinks he'll find a Playboy Bunny for a girlfriend or meet some movie star that he has crush on.
But of course as Ted Bundy became famous he started getting girls like many other serial killers so if Elliot Rodger didn't let himself get shot...
teachings of the Bible are so muddled and self-contradictory that it was possible for Christians to happily burn heretics alive for five long centuries. It was even possible for the most venerated patriarchs of the Church, like St. Augustine and St. Thomas Aquinas, to conclude that heretics should be tortured (Augustine) or killed outright (Aquinas). Martin Luther and John Calvin advocated the wholesale murder of heretics, apostates, Jews, and witches. - Sam Harris, "Letter To A Christian Nation"
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RE: Come On Girls, Do You Part
November 24, 2015 at 9:49 am
. . . and any female that got near him he sliced into pieces . . .
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RE: Come On Girls, Do You Part
November 24, 2015 at 11:46 pm
(November 23, 2015 at 6:50 pm)Beccs Wrote: See he points out himself that these guys are likely the type that women find repellent, anyway.
If they want to see why girls won't go near them they need to take a look in the mirror and start with sorting out the problem reflected back at them.
Why, that hardly seems reasonable.
Wouldn't it just be easier for millions of women to agree to fuck them, in the event that they demand it? 
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RE: Come On Girls, Do You Part
November 25, 2015 at 8:03 am
Ah... wouldn't it be nice if girls were that... ahem... open... ahem... minded.
But they're not.
I blame Disney.
Now seriously, somehow kids grow up thinking they're entitled to certain things - it's the everyone is special attitude, the no kid gets left behind, the every kid is smart, and funny, and witty, and clever, and cute, and intelligent, and everything.
Statistically, they're not half those things. Live with it.
Parents want their kids to feel good, but as they raise them to feel good about any stupid little thing and never curb less desired behaviors, they then grow to think they deserve things and will take any course of action to get those things.... This is why we have rapes, gangs and this sort of shootings.
The pedo-psychology of the 20th~21th centuries.
I'm not saying that all parents do this... but some do it... enough for some kids to rise up and do those despicable acts.
The problem lies in parents that don't introduce their kids to the harsh realities of life. I call that bad parenting, but it's also understandable parenting. Which parent doesn't want the best for their kids?
If you want to change something, it's not the girls, not the kids.... it's the parents.
How to change that?... I don't know... mandatory *free* child-psychology classes? Some counseling as to how to raise a balanced human being?...
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RE: Come On Girls, Do You Part
November 25, 2015 at 8:18 am
Wait a minute...why is gun oil gay? How did I not know this? My wife and I used it for regular sex. Will we turn gay? Will that make our marriage a gay marriage?
I find myself deeply confused.
Verbatim from the mouth of Jesus (retranslated from a retranslation of a copy of a copy):
"Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you too will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. How can you see your brother's head up his ass when your own vision is darkened by your head being even further up your ass? How can you say to your brother, 'Get your head out of your ass,' when all the time your head is up your own ass? You hypocrite! First take your head out of your own ass, and then you will see clearly who has his head up his ass and who doesn't." Matthew 7:1-5 (also Luke 6: 41-42)
Also, I has a website: www.RedbeardThePink.com
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RE: Come On Girls, Do You Part
November 25, 2015 at 9:00 am
(November 25, 2015 at 8:18 am)Redbeard The Pink Wrote: Wait a minute...why is gun oil gay? How did I not know this? My wife and I used it for regular sex. Will we turn gay? Will that make our marriage a gay marriage?
I find myself deeply confused.
You write in pink... if that's not a hint, I don't know what is...
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