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RE: How's Everyone Feeling Right Meow?
May 10, 2016 at 12:45 am
(May 10, 2016 at 12:40 am)The_Empress Wrote: (May 10, 2016 at 12:38 am)Excited Penguin Wrote: That's exactly what he specifically didn't ask for, the absence of it. Try telling him it's equanimity instead, you can take the credit, I won't tell, Mr. "Writer".
Why don't you just stick to your own threads and not pollute the supportive ones?
Gawds, you're an asshole.
Well, one of them has been an asshole to me and the other polluted my threads first, but I take your point. No one cares for my threads enough to care for his involvement, or about my opinion to care about the other's rudeness. I could point out how you've never said anything positive about me either, but you're a woman, and I'm a sexist pig, so I'll be chivalrous and back off.
Life is funny that way, isn't it.
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RE: How's Everyone Feeling Right Meow?
May 10, 2016 at 1:01 am
(May 10, 2016 at 12:45 am)Excited Penguin Wrote: (May 10, 2016 at 12:40 am)The_Empress Wrote: Why don't you just stick to your own threads and not pollute the supportive ones?
Gawds, you're an asshole.
Well, one of them has been an asshole to me and the other polluted my threads first, but I take your point. No one cares for my threads enough to care for his involvement, or about my opinion to care about the other's rudeness. I could point out how you've never said anything positive about me either, but you're a woman, and I'm a sexist pig, so I'll be chivalrous and back off.
Life is funny that way, isn't it.
Isn't that interesting how you could point it out, but you didn't?
Oh, wait!
I'll admit I've never said anything positive about you because there's never been anything positive to say. You're arrogant, condescending, and Dunning-Kruger has nothing on you.
Nolite te bastardes carborundorum.
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RE: How's Everyone Feeling Right Meow?
May 10, 2016 at 1:13 am
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(May 10, 2016 at 1:01 am)The_Empress Wrote: (May 10, 2016 at 12:45 am)Excited Penguin Wrote: Well, one of them has been an asshole to me and the other polluted my threads first, but I take your point. No one cares for my threads enough to care for his involvement, or about my opinion to care about the other's rudeness. I could point out how you've never said anything positive about me either, but you're a woman, and I'm a sexist pig, so I'll be chivalrous and back off.
Life is funny that way, isn't it.
Isn't that interesting how you could point it out, but you didn't?
Oh, wait!
I'll admit I've never said anything positive about you because there's never been anything positive to say. You're arrogant, condescending, and Dunning-Kruger has nothing on you.
Dunnig-Kruger in reverse can be a bitch.
Ok, here's what, I'll try being nicer so you can have something positive to say about me. My quota of dissapointment is filled up anyway.
I meant I'll back off generally.
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RE: How's Everyone Feeling Right Meow?
May 10, 2016 at 2:44 am
(This post was last modified: May 10, 2016 at 2:51 am by robvalue.)
(May 9, 2016 at 11:26 pm)Mamacita Wrote: I'm feeling tired, hungry, sleepy, and slightly interested in a cuddle, but that's so not hardcore and I will deny it until the day I die. In fact, I didn't type this. A mod changed my post. Damn you, mods!
Sending you lots of hugs sis  Yeah, that was me, so I could have another hug with someone 
I'm struggling the last few days. I'm going through a dip with my ME, and my depression was hitting me hard yesterday. I did get some enjoyment out of my day out yesterday, we had a lovely walk with our dog and my wife's parents, but the clutches of depression were tainting everything. It's not fair on Emma either, but she's amazingly understanding. I need loads of cuddles too, especially when I'm depressed, more than I can realistically expect one person to give. I'm a very affectionate person, and I crave affection too. I do tell Emma that it's my problem, I can't expect her to be pandering to me all the time, especially when life is so busy and hard for her living with me.
It's so hard when it feels like the bottom falls out. There's no particular reason my mood drops, it just does, and it's almost impossible to get it back. All I can do is wait it out and try to stop myself feeling worse. It leaves me vulnerable to the mental tricks of my depression, as it tries to twist reality by mixing a grain of truth with a ton of horse shit. Even when I can logically see through its games, the emotional power behind them make it hard to believe my own reasoning.
It's hard to say how I feel this morning. Anxious that I'm still going to feel depressed when I get up and do things. I really hope not, Emma has another day off and I want to enjoy it with her. I feel guilty that I have a wonderful wife yet I still feel this way.
It helps to have you guys here so I can pour my heart out, thank you 
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RE: How's Everyone Feeling Right Meow?
May 10, 2016 at 3:08 am
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RE: How's Everyone Feeling Right Meow?
May 10, 2016 at 4:28 am
(This post was last modified: May 10, 2016 at 4:32 am by Thumpalumpacus.)
(May 10, 2016 at 12:38 am)Excited Penguin Wrote: (May 10, 2016 at 12:31 am)Thumpalumpacus Wrote: Apathetic.
That's exactly what he specifically didn't ask for, the absence of it. Try telling him it's equanimity instead, you can take the credit, I won't tell, Mr. "Writer".
I'll let you know when I want your advice or assistance. I appreciate your effort even as I disagree with your suggestion.
As for your snark, it doesn't merit a reply. Try harder.
(May 10, 2016 at 12:45 am)Excited Penguin Wrote: Well, one of them has been an asshole to me and the other polluted my threads first, but I take your point. No one cares for my threads enough to care for his involvement, or about my opinion to care about the other's rudeness. I could point out how you've never said anything positive about me either, but you're a woman, and I'm a sexist pig, so I'll be chivalrous and back off.
Life is funny that way, isn't it.
In English, we have a saying: you reap what you sow.
/writerly suggestion
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RE: How's Everyone Feeling Right Meow?
May 10, 2016 at 4:35 am
(May 10, 2016 at 2:44 am)robvalue Wrote: (May 9, 2016 at 11:26 pm)Mamacita Wrote: I'm feeling tired, hungry, sleepy, and slightly interested in a cuddle, but that's so not hardcore and I will deny it until the day I die. In fact, I didn't type this. A mod changed my post. Damn you, mods!
Sending you lots of hugs sis Yeah, that was me, so I could have another hug with someone
I'm struggling the last few days. I'm going through a dip with my ME, and my depression was hitting me hard yesterday. I did get some enjoyment out of my day out yesterday, we had a lovely walk with our dog and my wife's parents, but the clutches of depression were tainting everything. It's not fair on Emma either, but she's amazingly understanding. I need loads of cuddles too, especially when I'm depressed, more than I can realistically expect one person to give. I'm a very affectionate person, and I crave affection too. I do tell Emma that it's my problem, I can't expect her to be pandering to me all the time, especially when life is so busy and hard for her living with me.
It's so hard when it feels like the bottom falls out. There's no particular reason my mood drops, it just does, and it's almost impossible to get it back. All I can do is wait it out and try to stop myself feeling worse. It leaves me vulnerable to the mental tricks of my depression, as it tries to twist reality by mixing a grain of truth with a ton of horse shit. Even when I can logically see through its games, the emotional power behind them make it hard to believe my own reasoning.
It's hard to say how I feel this morning. Anxious that I'm still going to feel depressed when I get up and do things. I really hope not, Emma has another day off and I want to enjoy it with her. I feel guilty that I have a wonderful wife yet I still feel this way.
It helps to have you guys here so I can pour my heart out, thank you
We love you, Rob. Your good heart shows.
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RE: How's Everyone Feeling Right Meow?
May 10, 2016 at 6:01 am
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Thank you very much Empress and Thump 
Your support means a lot to me I feel a little better after unburdening myself of those troubling thoughts, to people who I know care about me.
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RE: How's Everyone Feeling Right Meow?
May 10, 2016 at 8:23 am
I'm definitely in a stronger mood today than I was yesterday. I feel more in control of myself, rather than struggling to keep my head above water.
I realised I haven't been writing down and challenging my thoughts for a while now, especially where my ME is concerned. I've now got a piece of paper ready on the table to remind me to do so.
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How's Everyone Feeling Right Meow?
May 10, 2016 at 11:41 am
(May 10, 2016 at 12:38 am)Excited Penguin Wrote: (May 10, 2016 at 12:31 am)Thumpalumpacus Wrote: Apathetic.
That's exactly what he specifically didn't ask for, the absence of it. Try telling him it's equanimity instead, you can take the credit, I won't tell, Mr. "Writer".
Whoa, wtf? Penguin, you on your period or something?
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