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RE: Marriage Surnames
December 3, 2015 at 4:11 am
(December 3, 2015 at 3:50 am)Omnibus E Plrus Nhilist Wrote: (December 2, 2015 at 1:35 pm)KUSA Wrote: The only time it is alright for the man to take the woman's last name is if he is a submissive cowardly cuckold type of fellow.
Oooooo, that's nasty of you.
Nasty, but true.
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RE: Marriage Surnames
December 3, 2015 at 5:52 pm
I was born with the name oh my mom's friend, she remarried and I took her new husbands name. Then I moved in with my mom's parents and I took my mom's maiden name. (Which made the first marriage silly, I suppose) Then my great grandfather didn't like my first name and my grandparents changed it as far as school was concerned. Then I went back to my birth first name after he died but I changed the spelling. Then I got married, now divorced and back to my birth surname.
I have had 2 first names (3 if you include the spelling difference, but I don't) and 4 surnames. Lol
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RE: Marriage Surnames
December 3, 2015 at 5:58 pm
(December 3, 2015 at 5:52 pm)Kitty Galore Wrote: I was born with the name oh my mom's friend, she remarried and I took her new husbands name. Then I moved in with my mom's parents and I took my mom's maiden name. (Which made the first marriage silly, I suppose) Then my great grandfather didn't like my first name and my grandparents changed it as far as school was concerned. Then I went back to my birth first name after he died but I changed the spelling. Then I got married, now divorced and back to my birth surname.
I have had 2 first names (3 if you include the spelling difference, but I don't) and 4 surnames. Lol
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RE: Marriage Surnames
December 3, 2015 at 6:02 pm
(December 3, 2015 at 5:58 pm)Kingpin Wrote: (December 3, 2015 at 5:52 pm)Kitty Galore Wrote: I was born with the name oh my mom's friend, she remarried and I took her new husbands name. Then I moved in with my mom's parents and I took my mom's maiden name. (Which made the first marriage silly, I suppose) Then my great grandfather didn't like my first name and my grandparents changed it as far as school was concerned. Then I went back to my birth first name after he died but I changed the spelling. Then I got married, now divorced and back to my birth surname.
I have had 2 first names (3 if you include the spelling difference, but I don't) and 4 surnames. Lol
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Did you keep the various IDs up to date? You never know when that shit might come in handy.
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RE: Marriage Surnames
December 3, 2015 at 8:02 pm
My wife took my name. I didn't ask her to do so - in fact, I suggested she either keep her own name or get one of those hyphenated thingies. *shrug*
Name's a name. She shags me regularly and compliments my cooking, which is really all that matters.
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RE: Marriage Surnames
December 3, 2015 at 8:06 pm
My take on this: it's all up to the individual.
I've said for years that IF I get married, something else I've always said would never happen, I'll keep my surname.
Anderson's a cool last name and, frankly, for professional reasons, people know me by that name.
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RE: Marriage Surnames
December 3, 2015 at 8:19 pm
(December 3, 2015 at 4:11 am)Aractus Wrote: (December 3, 2015 at 3:50 am)Omnibus E Plrus Nhilist Wrote: Oooooo, that's nasty of you.
Nasty, but true. Incredibly, stupidly, assholishly sexist, actually.
I changed my name because it was important to my husband, despite us both being feminists. Sometimes I wonder if it was wise because it has professional considerations for me, but he is important to me and it was important to him, so I did it, and I'd do the same again.
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RE: Marriage Surnames
December 3, 2015 at 8:31 pm
(December 3, 2015 at 6:02 pm)Crossless1 Wrote: (December 3, 2015 at 5:58 pm)Kingpin Wrote: Who ARE you?!?!
Did you keep the various IDs up to date? You never know when that shit might come in handy.
@kingpin-yeah, I think I may have some identity issues there...
@crossless-umm...I want as good about it as I could have been. All the stuff that happened as a kid, I just was told what my new name was. Like all of middle school I had a different first name. But when I got married I changed my name legally. And then again when I got divorced, but not for quite awhile. I had a hard time with renewing my passport after my divorce though. Because I was going back to my birth name, but not the maiden name I used when I married. I got my new passport just days before a scheduled trip to Mexico.
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RE: Marriage Surnames
December 4, 2015 at 4:46 am
(December 3, 2015 at 8:19 pm)Mermaid Wrote: (December 3, 2015 at 4:11 am)Aractus Wrote: Nasty, but true. Incredibly, stupidly, assholishly sexist, actually.
I changed my name because it was important to my husband, despite us both being feminists. Sometimes I wonder if it was wise because it has professional considerations for me, but he is important to me and it was important to him, so I did it, and I'd do the same again.
Neo-feminism psycho-babble.
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"That's disgusting. There were clean athletes out there that have had their whole careers ruined by people like Lance Armstrong who just bended thoughts to fit their circumstances. He didn't look up cheating because he wanted to stop, he wanted to justify what he was doing and to keep that continuing on." - Nicole Cooke
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RE: Marriage Surnames
December 4, 2015 at 5:13 am
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(December 4, 2015 at 4:46 am)Aractus Wrote: (December 3, 2015 at 8:19 pm)Mermaid Wrote: Incredibly, stupidly, assholishly sexist, actually.
I changed my name because it was important to my husband, despite us both being feminists. Sometimes I wonder if it was wise because it has professional considerations for me, but he is important to me and it was important to him, so I did it, and I'd do the same again.
Neo-feminism psycho-babble.
Just because it's neo-psychonism femibubble doesn't mean that it isn't true, Aractus. You guys are terrible. I have as much use for silly ideas about gender from the 1950s as I have for a nuclear driven black and white TV set, thank you.
Actually, I know a guy whose original last name was the German word for "wet". He took his wife's name when they married, for, you will probably agree, entirely non-pussyefeminification-related reasons. 
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