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RE: Sex with a transsexual.
July 2, 2016 at 7:35 pm
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Is this just about transwomen or are transmen included as well?
If the latter, then yes I would, and in fact am married to a pre-op transman. Though transmen don't have the best options for bottom surgery; most of them just do hormone replacement therapy and top surgery (removal of mammaries). My hubby's on testosterone but hasn't had top surgery yet. I'm looking forward to him having top surgery--it'll be easier for me to lay my head on his chest!
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RE: Sex with a transsexual.
July 2, 2016 at 8:12 pm
I can't really say. I've never had the opportunity presented to me for one. For two, I'm already in a relationship so being with someone else, in any capacity, is out of the question. Still, even if I were single, I can't say. There are too many factors that come into play such as personality, the ability to get along, whether or not they are likable, even looks. There needs to be a physical attraction there as well.
We have one student in school who is undergoing the male to female transition. He has big hands and big feet as he stands nearly six foot five and he's sorta clumsy.
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RE: Sex with a transsexual.
July 2, 2016 at 9:01 pm
I voted no, but who knows. I guess it depends on how good the surgery is which is something I know nothing about. I don't know how far they've come with that. I never thought about it until Amy Shumer interviewed this hot M>F chick. For one, she was hot, but for another it was the fact that she had a boyfriend. I just naturally assumed that to date a transgenered person you would have to be into to that, or maybe be bi or transgender yourself. I never thought of just being straight and dating a M>F lady. If I remember correctly she still had her penis, so that was another thing I hadn't considered. That means the boyfriend is straight and dating a lady, but with a penis. So I questioned myself on why that would matter to me. Say I meet a nice M>F lady with a penis who I click with, and maybe she's sexy as hell; what does the penis matter? But I guess it just does. Not a fan of the penis.
I can't remember where this verse is from, I think it got removed from canon:
"I don't hang around with mostly men because I'm gay. It's because men are better than women. Better trained, better equipped...better. Just better! I'm not gay."
For context, this is the previous verse:
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Sex with a transsexual.
July 2, 2016 at 11:09 pm
(July 2, 2016 at 9:01 pm)Exian Wrote: I voted no, but who knows. I guess it depends on how good the surgery is which is something I know nothing about. I don't know how far they've come with that. I never thought about it until Amy Shumer interviewed this hot M>F chick. For one, she was hot, but for another it was the fact that she had a boyfriend. I just naturally assumed that to date a transgenered person you would have to be into to that, or maybe be bi or transgender yourself. I never thought of just being straight and dating a M>F lady. If I remember correctly she still had her penis, so that was another thing I hadn't considered. That means the boyfriend is straight and dating a lady, but with a penis. So I questioned myself on why that would matter to me. Say I meet a nice M>F lady with a penis who I click with, and maybe she's sexy as hell; what does the penis matter? But I guess it just does. Not a fan of the penis.
You could let her put it in you bro. You might like it.
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RE: Sex with a transsexual.
July 2, 2016 at 11:30 pm
I am heterosexual. If I see someone I find feminine and female and attractive and they permit me to have sex with them, I will have sex with them. If I discover afterwards that they were a transsexual I consider that to be irrelevant.
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RE: Sex with a transsexual.
July 2, 2016 at 11:59 pm
(July 2, 2016 at 11:30 pm)Alasdair Ham Wrote: I am heterosexual. If I see someone I find feminine and female and attractive and they permit me to have sex with them, I will have sex with them. If I discover afterwards that they were a transsexual I consider that to be irrelevant.
What if you find out before? Like if she gets undressed and there is a surprise staring you in the face?
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Sex with a transsexual.
July 3, 2016 at 12:09 am
(July 2, 2016 at 11:59 pm)Mr.wizard Wrote: (July 2, 2016 at 11:30 pm)Alasdair Ham Wrote: I am heterosexual. If I see someone I find feminine and female and attractive and they permit me to have sex with them, I will have sex with them. If I discover afterwards that they were a transsexual I consider that to be irrelevant.
What if you find out before? Like if she gets undressed and there is a surprise staring you in the face?
We all know the answer to that.
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RE: Sex with a transsexual.
July 3, 2016 at 12:33 am
(July 2, 2016 at 11:59 pm)Mr.wizard Wrote: (July 2, 2016 at 11:30 pm)Alasdair Ham Wrote: I am heterosexual. If I see someone I find feminine and female and attractive and they permit me to have sex with them, I will have sex with them. If I discover afterwards that they were a transsexual I consider that to be irrelevant.
What if you find out before? Like if she gets undressed and there is a surprise staring you in the face?
I think a penis would be too much of a turn off. But I wouldn't pretend that I hadn't been turned on up until that point.
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RE: Sex with a transsexual.
July 3, 2016 at 1:39 am
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I agree. I think that's a very healthy stance.
No one can help what they are or aren't attracted to, or what may be too much for them to cope with. But it comes down to whether it's the mere knowledge that is offputting. I can understand how it could be, for some people. It probably would have been for me, earlier in my life. I don't think it would bother me now.
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RE: Sex with a transsexual.
July 3, 2016 at 5:14 am
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Agreed. Knowing someone was a transsexual after already enjoying having sex with them already wouldn't turn me off. This would turn me off:
Mr. Wizard Wrote:Like if she gets undressed and there is a surprise staring you in the face?
Because I am not attracted to penises. I wouldn't pretend I wasn't attracted to the woman up until that point.
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