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Family christenings, weddings etc
#11
RE: Family christenings, weddings etc
Every opportunity is a good opportunity to instill the fear of hell and damnation in a young mind.....
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#12
RE: Family christenings, weddings etc
(August 3, 2010 at 5:36 pm)Thor Wrote:
(August 3, 2010 at 1:49 am)KichigaiNeko Wrote: Did storm out of a confirmation when the fucking priest started ranting about what a sinner my neice was!!

Gggggggggggggggrrrrrr Devil

What? Why would a priest take the occasion of a confirmation to chastise your niece for being "a sinner"? Was she the one getting confirmed?

Yes she was...something I just couldn't understand about catatonicism (catholicism).....

meh.
"The Universe is run by the complex interweaving of three elements: energy, matter, and enlightened self-interest." G'Kar-B5
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#13
RE: Family christenings, weddings etc
(August 3, 2010 at 9:39 pm)KichigaiNeko Wrote: Yes she was...something I just couldn't understand about catatonicism (catholicism).....

meh.

Incredible! If I was that kid's parent I would have gotten up, taken her by the hand and yanked her out of there. I would have also called the pedophile - I mean priest - an asshole. But then, if it was my kid she wouldn't have even been there in the first place.
Science flies us to the moon and stars. Religion flies us into buildings.

God allowed 200,000 people to die in an earthquake. So what makes you think he cares about YOUR problems?
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#14
RE: Family christenings, weddings etc
(August 4, 2010 at 9:52 am)Thor Wrote:
(August 3, 2010 at 9:39 pm)KichigaiNeko Wrote: Yes she was...something I just couldn't understand about catatonicism (catholicism).....

meh.

Incredible! If I was that kid's parent I would have gotten up, taken her by the hand and yanked her out of there. I would have also called the pedophile - I mean priest - an asshole. But then, if it was my kid she wouldn't have even been there in the first place.

She was there cos her dad is cataholic.... my sister on the other hand was not impressed.

But yeah ...one cig later and I rejoined the group...the things one does for love and family...

Yes?!
"The Universe is run by the complex interweaving of three elements: energy, matter, and enlightened self-interest." G'Kar-B5
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#15
RE: Family christenings, weddings etc
(August 5, 2010 at 1:41 am)KichigaiNeko Wrote: She was there cos her dad is cataholic

I don't know if that is a typo or intentional, but either way, it's hysterical! I have to remember that one!

ROFLOL
Science flies us to the moon and stars. Religion flies us into buildings.

God allowed 200,000 people to die in an earthquake. So what makes you think he cares about YOUR problems?
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#16
RE: Family christenings, weddings etc
So far, I have not had a chance to go to any of these events; therefore, I will have to talk hypothetically for the most part.
1) Weddings
I'm sure I would have no problem whatsoever with this. To not attend a wedding, or turn down an invitation on the basis that you're an atheist would be plain silly, or even petulant. Weddings nowadays are very tenuously linked with religion, and, although I may not agree with everything that goes on during the wedding ceremony, I would like to think that I'd be happy for the couple, religious or otherwise.
2) Funerals
Although I would never leap at the chance to attend a funeral, purely for the sheer sadness of the whole occasion, a religious dimension wouldn't increase my reluctance. The concept behind funerals is not to throw atheists/agnostics into strops, but to simply pay a mark of respect to the dead. So, all in all, if I were offered the chance to attend, I would more out of obligation than anything, but also to pay a mark of respect. Religion would not influence me either way.
3) Christenings
I feel slightly irritated when babies are christened, purely because they don't know what's happening. They haven't had a chance to make their own decision about god, as they're not old enough yet. Babies are a lot more likely to be religious if they are plunged into the Christian world from a young age; I don' resent this per se, but I just think it's a little sad. However, if it were someone older who has decided to be christened, and who are capable of thinking independantly, good luck to them. I'd feel happy for them.
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